Gabriella Bellisario

He Wasn't My Twin Flame...

It stems from childhood, the need to be heard and seen and loved and cared about; nurtured. Being seen is always what I crave in my romantic connections, but in a 3-Dimensional reality, 99% of men view me as a physical object they can toy with instead of feeling the vibration of my soul, thus utterly misunderstanding my entire being. It is painfully prevalent to witness powerful women base their self-worth on the perception of a man. It was something I was culpable of for 18 years. This culture has perpetuated the importance of our physical bodies, material items, and social elitism; it has become more significant than what a person’s soul has to offer. As someone with a maimed inner child, feeling seen as my soul seemed like a fantasy I would dream about, based on fairy tales and Disney movies. I didn’t think it was real, let alone feasible, until 3 months after my last relationship.