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Greetings, individuals with lovely poetic spirits. I am Diligent Person, an art enthusiast like yourselves, dedicated to sharing the most exquisite and poetic art with you all. Appreciating stunning art and beautiful souls. Love!
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Is it right or wrong to love someone with all your heart? Part 1
Are you today okay ?Tell me, Is it right or wrong to love someone with all your heart?. Is it true or false that the fat cat story in recent days has more or less caused a stir on Chinese social networks with many opinions? The story is about a 21 year old young man nicknamed Fat Cat who falls in love with a girl he met online 27 aged within two years, believing in the promise of a fat cat family. Having played games like crazy, he earned all the money he earned to buy gifts for his girlfriend, gold bracelets, shoes, clothes, and even opened a flower shop for his second girlfriend. A year of giving her lover a total of about 600 thousands USD to save such a large amount of money, he only dared to eat and drink. Saving the fat cat's favorite food is McDonald's. But he still didn't dare to eat even his avatar changed. Thanh didn't want to eat vegetables, wanted to eat McDonald's but fell in love with each other for two years in a long distance relationship. After seeing each other twice for a year and a half, he originally promised to get married, but when the time was approaching, the girl started using all kinds of excuses to break up. The fat cat tried to hold on to the relationship but everything went to a dead end and he was disappointed and finally he decided to give up on himself. Before he left, he even gave the girl 66,000 yuan to order 780 flowers. flowers at the store she used your money to open. She probably never knew that 780 symbolizes 780 days. They got to know each other. After learning this story, they bought a lot of flowers and fried chicken. Go to the bridge where the fat cat passed away and send along the words of hope that in the next life you will love someone more worthy and love yourself more.Housework is neglecting the boss's work, not to mention the truth behind this story, after being exposed that in fact the girlfriend and the fat cat have a relationship. a fair love relationship, she also advises her boyfriend not to transfer money to her anymore but to use it to plan for the future. At this time, public opinion will support who here, we are not talking about who is right and who is wrong. Who is responsible? Who should we side with or who should we feel sorry for? Let's take this story as a lesson to reflect on ourselves and stop admiring the blind love that no one has for the other. Let me stop loving you. Consider this an example to prove the saying that all good guys in the world are extinct. And also to stop complaining when you force yourself to believe that in love, whoever loves more is the one who loses.
By Diligent Personabout a year ago in Writers
Confidence is the greatest beauty of a woman
The winner of the first American Idol season 2002 said that although she only had nearly a day in Ho Chi Minh City, she took advantage of the time to visit many places. She said, because her best friend had been to Vietnam, he told her about places she needed to experience. "I visited the Independence Palace, the War Remnants Museum, ate at Quan Bui and also drank iced milk coffee," she said.
By Diligent Person2 years ago in Motivation
Psychological manipulation
Psychological manipulation Today we will explore all the concepts and actions of a psychological manipulator through a book summary. Psychological manipulation by expert Chanel Thomas written by author Tieu Hy at Spider Room If you regularly participate in social networking platforms, you will know that psychological manipulation is one of the most prominent phrases. in 2022 But manipulators can be anyone, from strangers to loved ones, who love the power to control their pleasures and the mind games they are playing. Know if you are in a manipulative relationship. Let victim of psychological manipulation and author of psychological manipulation books, prolific psychological consultant Chanel, guide you. And let the day begin when psychological abuse leaves no bruises, no broken bones, no holes in the walls, no holes, no deep voids in the hearts of survivors. is exactly what abusers want. The common trait of abusers is to always keep their hands clean and introduce the person to everyone. Quote from the first psychological manipulation book, who can be a psychological abuser. They can be anyone, a narcissist, an antisocial person, a father, a mother, a sibling, a grandparent, an aunt, an uncle, a cousin, a boyfriend, a girlfriend, a wife/ husband, an adult child, a co-worker, a boss, a pastor a teacher It is often difficult to detect abuse because it comes in many different forms and characteristics. There is a myth that abusers are primarily men. This is not entirely true. Yes, women can be abusers too, but the abuse is often different and more covered up. In a survey asking about abusive relationships with victims, results were given to 603 people. Answered the question with 122 people. 20% answered that the abuser had a close relationship with them such as parents, siblings, and Mr. and Mrs. Van Van. Of these 121 people, 87 wrote about their abuser being a relative. family mentioned mother-in-law mother-in-law or step-mother 41 times, step-parent mentioned 27 times and father mentioned male abuser 8 times in another study 433 people 72% of 603 participants reported According to the report According to reports, the abuser is often someone who is in a loving relationship with them. Of 102/433 people, 31 people identified as boyfriends, 30 people identified as husband and wife and 27 people identified as husband. 2 abusers engage in psychologically harmful behavior First Manipulative behavior occurs in the presence of toxic people Can be present anywhere Even in the field of mental health care, abuse can generally be divided into two Parts The first is between individuals, parents, children, love relationships, friends, etc. The second part is in a group of people among family members at work or in a religious organization. Manipulative behavior occurs when abusers tend to target people who have things they don't have or have abused. Sometimes it is only intended to bring pleasure, to enhance the personal interests of the individual being satisfied. evil ego by damaging and destroying the victim's personality. There are two truths about the survivor that the abuser holds most dear, the first is the survivor's lack of self-confidence and the second is the secret about the survivor's past growing up experiences of being manipulated. How poor. Abusers often love power, control, fun, and the mind games they are playing. The abuser will give out information. then silently watched the victim make a mistake. They only mock and criticize the survivor because they made a mistake. Toxic people who abuse children like to label survivors as selfish when they are trying. something good and healthy for themselves. Emotional abusers will stubbornly refuse to admit that their actions have hurt others. There is an avoidance tactic that is often used so that the abuser may unintentionally fall victim to everyday situations in life, such as friends not being that stingy with me or partners who would never hours of such behavior I expect more from employees. Surely like you, of course there will be more subtle hidden verbal actions that take place over a long period of time that are difficult to detect for until the person living under control realizes how much psychological manipulation he or she has gone through. Why does permissive behavior occur? Abusers may be people with personality disorders caused by a lack of healthy love from childhood and adolescence with their caregivers. A lack of healthy love can be the result of emotional neglect during childhood and adolescence. The child's physical needs may be met but apathy still exists. Including artificial bonds between family members in the past may cause some people to develop a personality disorder, but it is not an excuse for abusive behavior. If you want to manipulate psychology, there are still people who grew up in families lacking love but they are still very sympathetic, caring and treat others well, that's the truth.
By Diligent Person2 years ago in Psyche
How is love ?
Do you admit this to yourself ? love is both the closest and the furthest thing, both abstract and realistic, we worship love and also fall in love, we truly cherish love and also doubt love, we try to master love. love and also be defeated by love from past to present, countless questions about love have never stopped if you are still having trouble and hurt when loving if you are still asking how to do it. The way to connect with others, you can have a lasting love for someone without losing yourself and what is true love in the end, you can find the answer in the classic book of sociologist famous German-American humanist philosopher erich from one of the representatives of the new school of psychoanalysis sociocultural school This book is called the art of loving it is a Combining philosophy and psychology, it is considered one of the famous theoretical treatises on love. It has been translated into 32 languages. Although it was published in 1957, it still has a profound and profound influence today. helps millions of people understand the nature of love. Many people think that wanting to love honestly means having to invest physically and mentally, but author Farm believes that love is not just an emotion but also requires effort to develop and express one's entire personality. If one wants to have real love, one must make efforts to fully develop one's personality and constantly change oneself in the direction of self-enlightenment. For him, Love is an art, love is a type of ability and today Better Vision will help you explore and grasp this type of Art ability and find out what the true nature of love is. This book will help you escape the hurts in love, help you have a fundamental mindset to understand yourself, resolve misunderstandings, become strong in love and have a truly happy life now. Please listen together Why do you fail when you love? Love happens anytime, anywhere. Some people are in love, some are about to love. The rest spend time talking about love, waiting for love or staying away from love. I do n't know when the phrase I love you I love you has become a word that can be easily uttered. A very common and simple statement. We have enough courage to start loving but we don't have enough. perseverance just to last forever in the book there is a sentence like this in our modern society it is almost impossible to find any activity or business like love which begins with an expectation and hope What does it mean to have great hopes but to consistently fail? It means that any profitable activity can be more successful than love. This also begins to explain why The Age Now love happens so easily but so often fails, first of all because in today's modern society the entire culture is built on the concept of consumption and mutually beneficial exchange. Emotional relationships between people also follow the same basic principles as the commodity and labor markets. The second thing is that we are wrong in the first step to love, there is an example like this Many people are asked why you are not in love yet, most will answer because I haven't met the right person yet. Once I meet you, I will automatically fall in love, but author thinks this thought is funny because it is impossible to say why you If you don't know how to draw, it's because you have n't seen the things you want to draw. Everyone always thinks you have to meet the right person to truly love. It's not because I'm incapable of love, it's because the sea of people is so vast. The right person has not yet appeared or the Unhappy Marriage is due to meeting the wrong person, so I broke up behind this thought, which means that the problem of love always lies in the person you will love and love. It 's not because of your ability to love, but that 's a misconception because you don't know how to draw because you haven't learned to draw, you don't know how to love, you haven't had real love yet because you haven't learned how to love. The problem never lies in the object but in your own abilities. The third reason is that because love in modern times focuses on the object and is built on material values, people often consider it Love is finding the answer to the question How to be loved, so most people try their best to win the love of another person instead of trying to love that person through love. refer to others Treat love as a win- win investment Every time we talk about love we automatically associate it with many standards Aim to raise our love quotient such as how to have a better image possess more assets in front of a higher position have more influence etc. Everyone craves love but at the same time values other things like achievement status fame and power more powerful than love, so has used most of his life to achieve the above goals and very few people take the time to learn how to love.
By Diligent Person2 years ago in Psyche
Look at life with different eyes
Look at life with different eyes As a child, I looked at the Day River flowing through my village with an overwhelming feeling of its majesty and endlessness. But by this time, my view and feeling about that river was completely different even though the river had not changed. Both views, one of a 5-year-old boy and one of an old man, are completely accurate. It's funny how that old man or that boy denies each other's looks. Because each view is born from that person's personal history, experiences and emotions.
By Diligent Person2 years ago in Writers
Khi ma ( When )
This is a song called "When" by rapper Ronboogz written about the milestones in his life. The song has melodious melodies with great resonance through Ronboogz's voice. The lyrics contain the rapper's thoughts and can also describe a part of the lives of each of us. And below are the lyrics, please read and give me your thoughts on this song
By Diligent Person2 years ago in Beat
When chosen for the calling of a writer to illuminate the path of literature
When chosen for the calling of a writer to illuminate the path of literature, it is essential for their life to be authentically lived. Why is the literary profession so demanding, especially for someone in such a prestigious position? Because in this field, many individuals lead artificial lives, merely existing and engaging superficially to gain advantages. This type of existence is often termed pragmatic living, where relationships are transactional rather than genuine. The literary world detests such disingenuous behavior. Living authentically also involves living with care and attentiveness. It means being truthful to see through the facades of those around them. True life is when one can perceive others beyond their outward personas, even when subjected to ridicule or misrepresentation by society. Conversely, individuals who are showered with admiration and praise may harbor hidden malice. They may excel at masking evil with goodness, presenting a false image to the world. All these behaviors stem from a commitment to living honestly, sincerely, and thoroughly every moment, hour, day, and year. In reality, human interactions are person-to-person relationships, while in literature, characters are crafted entities. The literary profession constructs a microcosm of society on each page, delineating the intricate relationships of these characters. A writer's vocation evolves over time, shaping their persona and nurturing their craft, akin to building a sacred abode free from detrimental influences like plagiarism or insincere narratives. The outcome of a genuinely and attentively lived life is paramount for a writer. When a writer has established their literary throne, their work aspires to resonate with readers of all backgrounds and perspectives, evoking varied emotions and thoughts. This diversity of interpretation is crucial in preventing monotony and ensuring the work's relevance and impact. The ultimate aim of the literary profession is to enrich lives and provoke contemplation. A writer's pursuit is incompatible with mediocrity, as average works are deemed counterfeit and detrimental. The literary world, unlike everyday life, cannot afford averageness. It rejects substandard creations and strives for excellence, upholding the noble essence of the writer's calling. In a world where superficiality is prevalent, the literary vocation demands authenticity and depth. Mediocrity is shunned, and only through genuine dedication and integrity can a writer fulfill their true potential and create works of lasting significance.
By Diligent Person2 years ago in Poets
Youth is like clouds in the sky
Teenage is fleeting, like clouds in the sky drifting away. Chung woke up from his nap, glancing at the clock to see it was nearly 2 pm. Absentmindedly, he gazed out the window, a smile gracing his face as he recalled the dream he had just experienced. In the dream, he found himself back in 12th grade, sharing laughter and snacks with friends, immersed in endless gossip. Beyond the window, the clear blue sky and the chirping of cicadas heralded the imminent arrival of summer. Time slips away swiftly, almost as if it were only yesterday. Memories of wearing the traditional ao dai to school still linger, yet now Chung is on the brink of his third year of university. The youthful countenance he once possessed has given way to a more mature visage, shaped by years of learning. Life unfolds, revealing that some things, once gone, cannot be reclaimed. Youth is akin to a downpour that one wishes to revel in once more; enveloped in the merriment of friends, dancing without regard for time. Chung wishes for his friends, integral parts of his youth, to always be healthy, happy, and prosperous on their chosen paths. To those feeling adrift, take solace in knowing that somewhere in the world, he stands ready to offer unwavering support and encouragement. Reach out when in need, and let's reunite this Tet holiday! The longing for everyone is profound.
By Diligent Person2 years ago in Writers
THE ART OF SAYING NO IS PLEASANT TO EVERYONE
THE ART OF SAYING NO IS PLEASANT TO EVERYONE In life, it is very normal for you to refuse someone else's offer. However, many people do not dare to refuse because they are too "respectful" for fear of offending and then helping others in an uncomfortable state of not doing their best or not having enough time to do their own work. Some people are not tactful and refuse, causing offence, and the relationship then deteriorates.
By Diligent Person2 years ago in Art
