Debdutta Pal
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For 27 years, I lived somebody else’s life. Now reclaiming what is rightfully mine, one story at a time. Support me: https://ko-fi.com/debduttapal90
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At my worst moments, I often find myself stuck in a whirlpool of negativity. It feels like a maze that I can’t escape. I find myself struggling, searching for a hand, ladder, rope, something that would help me get out.
By Debdutta Pal5 years ago in Psyche
The 10 Life Lessons I learned from Cosmo Kramer
“I want to go home,” I blurted out in exasperation, moments after sitting down at a restaurant. “I can’t believe this. I have been planning this outing for weeks, and now that I am here, all I want to do is go home and rest.”
By Debdutta Pal5 years ago in Motivation
My Hair Deserves Some Much-needed TLC, and Honestly, So Do I
It’s time I decided last night, during my everyday insomniac late-night special. I cannot drift through life anymore. I don’t know what I am going through, and the only visible evidence of my problems is intense procrastination.
By Debdutta Pal5 years ago in Blush
I Want to Go on a Tropical Vacay, but I Could Also Settle for a Few Nights of Continuous Sleep
One month after my Pandemic Anniversary, this is my answer to the question, “What do you really want right now?”. Weirdly, two diametrically opposite things come to mind, and I cannot choose which one I want more.
By Debdutta Pal5 years ago in Psyche
5 Reasons Why I Choose to Talk About My Problems
I don’t get small talk. Hello. Hello. How are you? I am fine. (I am not okay, and I haven’t been for a while. Life’s hard. But, I am aware of my problems and trying very hard to work on them. You can’t say that no one cares. No, saying that I am okay, is lying. This exchange is what is wrong with the world, all of us pretending to be fine when we are not. Pull yourself together, just say I am fine).
By Debdutta Pal5 years ago in Psyche
Why Body Positivity Is Challenging and Difficult to Achieve
I’ve wanted to share my thoughts regarding my body for more than a year now and haven’t been able to. This was one of the first topics I wanted to cover, even before I started writing on this platform. I wanted to talk about things that no one talks about, and although body positivity has been a massive movement in the recent past, there was still stuff that I wanted to get off my chest.
By Debdutta Pal5 years ago in Longevity
