Introduction
So let me introduce myself, I am a bonus mom to one and a mom to another I won't be giving my name or my kids and or family. But my story started a few years back. I first met my awesome step daughter when she was 3.5 years old. It was my birthday, and on my birthday I go to my parents, I had asked my boyfriend if he wanted to come with me but he ended up having his daughter which was a rare occurrence with his baby momma. I told him that it was obviously okay, but then he asked me if I wanted to meet his daughter. I didn't know what to think do I say yes? Would my parents mind if I brought my new boyfriend and his daughter? So I called them up and of course they said it was okay, and that it was my birthday so I could invite whomever I wanted. When we first met I was under the impression that she wasn't good at meeting new people. I've been babysitting since I was a teenager, so I knew that this meant. You pretty much have to earn these little boogers trust. I didn't know what I was getting myself into, all I knew was that I've always loved kids and if my current boyfriend wanted me to meet his daughter then I wanted to as well. When I met her I got down on her level and introduced myself to her. What I expected was for her to shy away, and not look at me and I was okay with this. But what I didn't expect was for her to jump in my arms and give me a hug. I was shocked, however I hugged her back because what was I supposed to do? Push her off? I don't think so. So I stood back up and looked at her father and he was just as shocked as I was. From then on we had her at least once a week, like I said the baby momma is a handful. I remember one morning waking up at 7am to my boyfriend answering his phone, and baby momma was screaming her head off, that if we didn't then he wouldn't see her again for awhile. At the time he didn't have a vehicle and his mom would pick up his daughter. He tried explaining this, but she wouldn't have it. I wasn't a morning person so it pissed me off really quickly, I told him to tell her we would be there in thirty minutes. When we got there, she wanted to talk to him alone, I was fine with it and when he came back to the car with his daughter he was mad. I asked him what was going on, and come to find out she wanted him back and for them to be a family again. I didn't know what to think, but if he wanted to make it work with her, then I would have to be okay with it wouldn't I? So I pulled over and told him just that, if he wanted to make it work I would bring him and his daughter back and they could make it work. He looked at me then his daughter and back to me, then he told me flat out that no he didn't want her back. That he had given her a chance to make this family work and she didn't want to. I took that as my opportunity, and made my decision that I wanted this. There are so many other stories I want to tell and I am going to use this platform to vent and let it all out of what I have been through. I hope you enjoy my story and I have to bring.
