A Day in the Life of a Newlywed

I start my day around 6 am get ready and get on my bus by 7 to the office. I will pray for sometime say 5–10 mins, then doze off. Sometimes due to traffic or people inside the bus will put my cords.

Will reach the office by 8:50 or 9, get refreshed (since I doze on the bus), and will open my Windows machine to start the day’s work. After one hour will eat breakfast at the pantry, and again continue my work, which is followed by lunch at the pantry around 2 pm. Will prepare the work status and sign off work by 6 and will board the bus by 6 15.

Now again bus travel from 6 15- 8 50 or 9. On the bus I watch some videos for 20–30mins then start praying. After reaching home I’ll wash a few vessels and eat dinner prepared, then spread the mats for sleep (can't sleep in the bed due to health issues)

This is my daily routine, and I am not on WhatsApp, install, FB, or any other social media. In between this routine, I may get 2–3 calls sometimes my mom, and other times clients asking me some issues to resolve.

I am doing fine with myself and give a pat on my back every day.

I feel comfortable with this because nowadays people in the name of “friends” get pleasure by asking about our personal lives. Then they project themselves as the wisest of all and suggest all the stupidest things. This cycle will continue daily asking you whether you followed what they asked you to do. I had many friends who used me and treated my innocence as their entertainment.

When you are alone and doing things on your own, sometimes you may feel you have no one to share, but that’s ok. Sharing helps us to get relieved of our pains- yes, but people create a new pain out of that- so it’s ok not to share.

Go out spend your alone time, cry, think, cry, and come out as a new person. After all, it’s your life, so if decisions and suggestions don’t come within, you will be blaming others for things happening to you.

You may be sitting and having lunch alone but trust me it’s far better than being in a group of judgemental people.

When people have nothing to talk they start from the very basic things say your food, your way of eating, dress, etc to judge.

This world is waiting to suck and crush innocent hearts, being alone always helps to escape the trap.

Nobody is really happy when you are happy, but everyone is eager to know whether you are happy( just to ruin it)!!