4 important signs to know he is in love with you
indicators
four things that men say when they're in
love these phrases may seem small and
insignificant but they can actually hold
a lot of meaning and be indicators of
strong feelings of love are you ready to
find out what these four things are
one I need you when a man says I need
you it can be a powerful and emotional
statement it means that he sees you as
an integral part of his life and values
the role you play in making him a better
person it's a sign that he's not just in
love with you but that he relies on you
and counts on you to be a support system
for him
but what does it mean when a man needs
you it could mean that he relies on you
for emotional support or that he values
your opinion and seeks your advice on
important decisions it could also mean
that he looks to you for comfort and
security whatever the case may be it's
clear that he sees you as a valuable
part of his life and is grateful for the
support and love you provide on the
other hand if a man doesn't Express the
need for you in his life it could be a
red flag it might mean that he's not as
invested in the relationship as you are
or that he doesn't see you as a valuable
part of his future so what your man is
saying I need you take it as a
compliment and a sign of his love and
commitment to you it means he values
your presence in his life and sees you
as a vital part of his support system
cherish those moments and continue to
support him in return
two I miss you I miss you it's a simple
phrase but it can pack a punch when it
comes from someone you care about when a
man says he misses you it means he's
thinking about you even when you're not
around it could be that he's just
feeling nostalgic for the time he's
spent together or it could be a sign of
something deeper but why is it such a
big deal when a man misses you well for
starters it shows that he values your
presence in his life it means he enjoys
spending time with you and looks forward
to being with you again it also
demonstrates that he's invested in the
relationship and cares about your
happiness on the other hand if a man
never misses you or doesn't seem to care
when you're not around it could be a red
flag it might mean that he's not as
invested in the relationship as you are
or that he's not as concerned with your
feelings as he should be
so if your man is saying I miss you take
it as a compliment it means he's
thinking about you and values your place
in his life cherish those moments
because they're a sign of a strong and
healthy relationship three I'm sorry I'm
sorry it's a simple phrase but it can go
a long way in a relationship when a man
apologizes for something it means he's
willing to admit when he's made a
mistake it shows that he cares about
your feelings and wants to make things
right it's a sign of his love and
commitment to the relationship
but why is an apology such a big deal
well for starters it demonstrates that
he's willing to be vulnerable and admit
when he's wrong it takes courage to
admit fault and it shows that he's
willing to take responsibility for his
actions it also shows that he values
your feelings and is willing to make an
effort to repair any damage that may
have been done
on the other hand if a man never
apologizes or is unwilling to admit when
he's wrong it could be a red flag it
might mean that he's not as invested in
the relationship as you are or that he's
not as concerned with your feelings as
he should be
so if your man is saying I'm sorry take
it as a sign of his love and commitment
to the relationship it means he cares
about your feelings and is willing to
make an effort to repair any damage that
may have been done
4. I love you it's a simple phrase but
it can carry a lot of weight when a man
says I love you it's a powerful
expression of his feelings it means he's
completely open and vulnerable with you
and is committed to building a life
together it's the ultimate sign of his
love and Devotion to you but why is it
such a big deal when a man says I love
you well for starters it demonstrates
that he's willing to be vulnerable and
open with you it takes courage to
express love and it shows that he trusts
you with his feelings it also shows that
he's committed to the relationship and
sees a future with you so if your man is
saying I love you take it as a sign of
his love and commitment to you it means
he's open and vulnerable with you and is
committed to building a life together
cherish those moments and continue to
support him in return
so there you have it four signs that a
man might be into you but remember every
guy is different and the best way to
know for sure if someone likes you is to
ask them directly just be prepared for
the possibility that they might not feel
the same way and always respect their
boundaries and decisions thanks for
reading .
About the Creator
Silent Struggle
No one noticed the moment his life began to feel heavy. There was no single disaster, no dramatic fall. Everything happened slowly—quietly—like dust settling on furniture no one cared to clean. From the outside, his life looked normal. He woke up, went to work, smiled when needed, and returned home exhausted. But inside, a silent struggle was growing every single day. His name was Hamza. Hamza used to believe effort was always rewarded. As a child, he was told that if you worked hard, life would eventually open its doors for you. For a long time, he held onto that belief. He studied late into the night, sacrificed weekends, and stayed disciplined when others took shortcuts. But as years passed, reality felt cruelly different. People with less effort moved ahead. Opportunities passed him by. Promises turned into excuses. At work, Hamza was dependable—but invisible. When projects succeeded, others were praised. When mistakes happened, eyes quietly turned toward him. He never complained. He didn’t want to be seen as weak or ungrateful. Instead, he stayed silent. That silence slowly became his habit. At home, expectations followed him like a shadow. Everyone assumed he was “doing fine” because he never spoke about his struggles. Friends stopped asking how he was. Conversations became shallow. No one knew how many nights he lay awake staring at the ceiling, wondering if something was wrong with him. The hardest part wasn’t failure. It was feeling unseen. One night, after another exhausting day, Hamza sat alone in his room. The city outside was loud, full of people chasing dreams, celebrating small wins, living loudly. Inside his room, everything felt still. He picked up his phone and scrolled through social media. Success stories. Smiling faces. Motivational quotes. Each post felt like a reminder of how far behind he was. His chest tightened. A thought crept into his mind—soft, dangerous, and persistent. “Maybe I’m not meant for more.” That thought scared him. Not because it hurt—but because it felt believable. For the first time, Hamza considered giving up. Not dramatically. Not by quitting everything. Just… stopping the effort. Doing the bare minimum. Accepting an ordinary life without expectations. No one would notice anyway. But something held him back. It wasn’t hope. It wasn’t motivation. It was stubbornness. A quiet refusal to completely let go. The next morning, nothing changed externally. The same routine. The same people. The same silence. But inside Hamza made a small decision: “I’ll keep going—even if nothing changes.” He stopped waiting for encouragement. He stopped seeking validation. He focused only on improving himself, one small step at a time. He learned after work when others relaxed. He practiced skills no one asked him to learn. He failed quietly and corrected himself without announcing it. Some days, he felt strong. Most days, he felt tired. But he showed up anyway. Weeks turned into months. There were still no rewards. No applause. No sudden success. But something subtle was happening—something Hamza didn’t notice at first. He was becoming resilient. Things that once broke his confidence no longer shook him as much. Rejection still hurt, but it didn’t stop him. Criticism no longer crushed him; it taught him. Silence, once painful, became his training ground. One evening, a major issue arose at his workplace. A complicated problem that others avoided because failure would be visible. Managers were tense. Deadlines were tight. Blame was already being prepared. Hamza didn’t speak up immediately. He simply started working. He stayed late. He researched. He tested ideas. He made mistakes and fixed them. There were moments he doubted himself. Moments when fear whispered, “You’re not good enough for this.” But he answered back with action. Days later, the problem was solved—not perfectly, but effectively. This time, people noticed. Not with applause. Not with excitement. But with curiosity. “Who handled this?” “When did he learn that?” “Why didn’t we see this before?” Hamza didn’t feel proud in the way he expected. Instead, he felt calm. Grounded. Secure in a way that didn’t depend on others. When his manager finally called him in and acknowledged his work, Hamza thanked him politely. But inside, he knew the truth: This moment wasn’t built overnight. It was built during silent nights. Unseen effort. Unrecognized discipline. Life hadn’t ignored him. Life had been watching. Testing whether he would keep going without praise. Years later, Hamza looked back at the version of himself who almost quit. The man who felt invisible. The man who believed silence meant failure. He wished he could tell him one thing: “Your struggle wasn’t wasted. It was shaping you.” Not everyone’s journey is loud. Not every victory is celebrated. Some people are built quietly—strong enough to stand when others fall. If you are struggling silently today, know this: You are not behind. You are not invisible. You are not weak. You are being prepared. And one day, without warning, life will notice. Final Line (Powerful Ending): The strongest people are often the ones no one sees fighting—but they keep going anyway.
By Inayat khanabout 13 hours ago in Writers
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