How to Understand and Follow Local Customs and Etiquette in Bangkok

Bangkok, the vibrant capital of Thailand, is known for its rich culture, historical landmarks, and warm, hospitable people. For travellers, understanding and respecting local customs and etiquette can make a visit smoother and more enriching. While it’s easy to get lost in the excitement of exploring the bustling streets of Bangkok, adhering to the city’s unique cultural practices will ensure you have a positive experience with locals.

The Importance of Respect: Wai and Greetings

A fundamental aspect of Thai culture is respect, demonstrated through their unique greeting known as the "wai." This traditional gesture involves placing your palms together in a prayer-like position and bowing slightly. The wai is used when greeting, thanking, or saying goodbye. It’s essential to note that the wai is typically offered first by a person of lower status or younger age, and responding with a wai shows politeness. Additionally, the position of the hands and the depth of the bow signify the social status of those involved.

Dressing Appropriately in Public and Religious Sites

While Bangkok is a modern city, traditional values concerning modesty in attire are still observed. When visiting religious sites such as temples (known as "wats"), dressing modestly is crucial. Temples like the famous Wat Phra Kaew or Wat Arun are sacred spaces, and wearing revealing clothing is seen as disrespectful. This also applies to other sacred places, be it churches or mosques, where the dress code is upheld similarly. Both men and women are expected to cover their shoulders and knees. Footwear should be removed when entering temple buildings.

Even when outside religious settings, dressing modestly is encouraged, especially in more conservative areas of the city. In lively areas like Sukhumvit, where you’ll find upscale Sukhumvit accommodation options like the Citadines Sukhumvit 11 Bangkok, more casual attire is acceptable. However, it’s wise to remain respectful in your choice of clothing to avoid offending locals.

Understanding Thai Social Hierarchy and Respect for Monarchy

Thai society operates on a deeply ingrained social hierarchy where age and status determine levels of respect. Elders are accorded high regard, and public displays of disrespect, especially toward older individuals, are frowned upon. For example, giving up your seat on public transport for an elderly person is not just polite, but expected.

A particularly sensitive topic in Thailand is the monarchy. Thai people hold their royal family in the highest regard, and speaking ill of the monarchy is not only socially unacceptable but also illegal under Thailand's strict lèse-majesté laws. As a visitor, avoid discussing or making jokes about the royal family. You may notice portraits of the King displayed in public areas, and it’s customary to show respect by standing quietly during events that honour the monarchy, such as when the national anthem is played in public spaces like parks and cinemas.

Foot Etiquette: Keeping Your Feet Grounded

In Thailand, the head is considered the most sacred part of the body, while the feet are seen as the lowest and dirtiest. Therefore, it is disrespectful to point your feet at people, religious objects, or even images of the King. When seated, avoid crossing your legs and pointing your feet towards someone, especially when hasitting in temples or speaking with elders. 

Dining Etiquette: Sharing and Serving

Thai dining culture revolves around the idea of sharing food. When dining with others, it’s customary to order multiple dishes for everyone to share, rather than having individual portions. When seated at a table, the most senior or eldest person is usually served first. It’s polite to wait until the eldest person starts eating before you begin.

Utensils typically used in Thailand are forks and spoons, not chopsticks (except for noodle dishes). The spoon is held in the dominant hand, and the fork is used to push food onto the spoon. Additionally, placing chopsticks or utensils vertically in a bowl of rice is inappropriate, as it resembles offerings made to the deceased.

Whether dining at a street food stall or at one of Sukhumvit’s many modern eateries near your accommodation, remember that finishing all the food on your plate is not mandatory. Leaving a small portion shows that you are satisfied.

Tipping and Money Etiquette

Tipping in Thailand is not obligatory, but it is appreciated, particularly in more tourist-oriented areas. At upscale properties, leaving a small tip for the housekeeping staff or bellboys is considered polite. In restaurants, rounding up the bill or leaving 10% of the total is usually sufficient. When handing money to someone, especially to an elder, use both hands as a sign of respect. It’s also customary to receive items, especially money, with both hands. Avoid crumpling or stepping on Thai currency, as it features images of the King.

Public Behaviour

Thai people value composure and patience. In public, losing your temper or raising your voice is considered inappropriate and can cause you to lose face. Whether dealing with taxi drivers, negotiating in markets, or communicating with hotel staff, maintaining a calm and friendly demeanour will ensure smoother interactions.