My Rent Was $300 While Earning Close to Six Figures - What Happened to My Net Worth
The decision that changed everything wasn't a raise. It was refusing to upgrade.
In 2016, my rent was $300.
I was renting out a room from a family.
And I was earning close to six figures at the time.
Many people might hear that and wonder: Why?
Why would anyone live like that when they didn't have to?
And that question - that instinct to upgrade the moment you can - is exactly why most people stay broke.
The Setup Nobody Talks About
Here's what my financial life looked like back then:
Rent: $300
Phone bill: minimal
Car note: tiny (and I paid it off the same month I got my job)
Car insurance: bare minimum
Overall monthly bills: less than $1,000
I wasn't living in squalor. I wasn't suffering. I just refused to expand into my income the way everyone around me was doing.
Meanwhile, coworkers earning the same salary were:
Signing leases on $1,500+ apartments
Financing new cars
Eating out constantly
Buying furniture they "deserved"
Upgrading their wardrobes
Taking trips they couldn't actually afford
They looked successful. I looked like I was still in college.
Appearances don't compound, though.
What I Did Instead
I saved money. Aggressively.
I paid off my car. Completely.
I invested. Consistently.
That's it. That's the whole strategy.
No complicated system. No secret investment hack. No inheritance. No side hustle at that point.
Just a massive gap between what I earned and what I spent - and I poured that gap into my future.
The math was simple:
If you earn $80K and spend $75K, you have $5K to invest.
If you earn $80K and spend $30K, you have $50K to invest.
Same income. Wildly different outcomes.
I chose the second path.
And my net worth started moving in ways that shocked even me.
The Psychology of Staying Small
People don't realize how much of spending is emotional.
You get a raise, and suddenly you feel like you should live differently. Like the money is asking to be spent. Like upgrading is the reward you earned.
But upgrading is not a reward. It's a reset.
Every time you expand your lifestyle to match your income, you reset your financial progress to zero. You're not building anything. You're just maintaining a more expensive version of broke.
I watched people around me do this for years. They'd get a promotion and immediately:
Move to a nicer apartment
Lease a better car
Start dining at fancier restaurants
Buy clothes that "matched their new role"
Six months later, they were stressed about money again. Because their expenses had risen to meet - and often exceed - their new income.
The raise didn't change anything. It just made their hamster wheel more expensive.
What $300 Rent Actually Bought Me
It bought me time.
It bought me options.
It bought me the ability to say "no" to things that didn't serve me.
When your expenses are low, you're not desperate. You're not trapped. You're not one bad month away from panic.
I could take risks other people couldn't take because I had margin. I could invest aggressively because I wasn't bleeding money on rent. I could walk away from situations that weren't working because I wasn't financially dependent on them.
That $300 rent wasn't a sacrifice. It was leverage.
The Compound Effect Nobody Wants to Wait For
Here's what people don't understand about wealth building: it's boring for a long time.
You save. You invest. Nothing dramatic happens.
You check your accounts. The numbers move slowly.
You wonder if it's even working.
And then - years later - the curve bends.
The money you invested when you were living on $300 rent has been compounding while you slept. The habits you built when nobody was watching become the foundation you stand on.
I didn't see massive returns in year one. Or year two. But by year five? Year ten?
The gap between me and the people who "lived their best life" in their twenties became undeniable.
They were still chasing the next paycheck. I was watching my investments work harder than I ever could.
The Sacrifice Wasn't What You Think
People assume I was miserable. That I was depriving myself. That I was white-knuckling through some joyless existence.
I wasn't.
I traveled. I ate well. I invested in experiences that mattered to me.
I just didn't waste money on things I didn't care about.
I didn't care about a fancy apartment. I didn't care about a new car. I didn't care about impressing people with my lifestyle.
I cared about freedom. And freedom has a price: delayed gratification.
The people who looked successful were often performing success. I was quietly building it.
What My Net Worth Looks Like Now
I'm not going to give you an exact number because that's not the point.
The point is this: I am not stressed about money.
I have options most people my age don't have. I can make decisions based on what I want, not what I need to survive. I can take time off. I can say no. I can invest in things that matter to me without panic.
That security didn't come from a windfall or a lucky break.
It came from $300 rent when I could have paid $1,500.
It came from keeping my car when everyone else was upgrading.
It came from investing the difference instead of spending it.
It came from refusing to let my expenses rise just because my income did.
The Question You Need to Ask Yourself
If your income doubled tomorrow, what would you do?
Most people would immediately upgrade something. Bigger apartment. Better car. Nicer clothes. More dinners out.
And in six months, they'd be exactly where they are now - just with higher bills.
What if you did nothing instead?
What if you kept your rent the same, kept your car the same, kept your lifestyle the same - and invested the entire difference?
That's not deprivation. That's strategy.
That's how ordinary people build extraordinary wealth.
The Real Flex
I used to feel embarrassed about my living situation. I kept it extra low key. But I still didn't change it.
I maintained the discipline to stay small when everything around me was screaming "EXPAND!"
The flex was choosing my future self over my present ego.
The flex was building something real while everyone else was building appearances.
Start Here
If you're earning decent money and wondering why you're not getting ahead, audit your lifestyle.
Not your income. Your lifestyle.
Where is the gap between what you earn and what you spend? Is it 5%? 10%? Or is there no gap at all?
That gap is your wealth-building potential. And if it doesn't exist, you're not building anything - you're just surviving at a higher price point.
Live below your means. Invest the difference. Be patient.
It sounds boring because it is boring.
But boring works.
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This article is for informational purposes only. It should not be considered financial or legal advice. Not all information will be accurate. Consult a financial professional before making any significant financial decisions.
About the Creator
Destiny S. Harris
Writing since 11. Investing and Lifting since 14.
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