So… What’s Your Home Style? Let’s Figure It Out

Decorating your home can be surprisingly difficult. You pick out pieces that you think will work, but once they're in place, nothing seems to fit together the way you imagined. It’s frustrating, but it’s also totally normal. The truth is, a lot of us don’t really know what our home style is until we start experimenting with things in our space. We might know what we like when we see it, but pulling everything together? That’s where the challenge lies.

So, how do you figure out your style without losing your mind in the process? Here's how you could break it down.

1) Forget About "Style" for a Moment

Okay, here's something controversial: Thinking about "style" as the priority when purchasing furniture isn't the way. I know, we all love naming our favorite styles like boho, minimalist, or modern. But before you jump into that, ask yourself: how do you want your space to feel? Do you want it to be cozy and relaxed? Bright and airy? Warm and welcoming? Fun and playful? The feelings you want your space to evoke should be your starting point.

Once you’ve figured that out, the rest will be easier. Instead of trying to force a specific style onto your space, focus on the atmosphere you want to create. This will help guide your decisions and make it feel less overwhelming.

2) Look at What You’re Already Saving

Chances are, you’ve already been saving inspiration somewhere—whether it’s on Instagram, Pinterest, or even in a folder on your phone. Take a look at what you’ve saved. Are there recurring themes? Maybe you’ve pinned tons of images of light-filled rooms, or maybe you’re drawn to cozy, intimate spaces with a lot of textures. You don’t have to analyze everything down to the last detail, just notice the vibe you’re gravitating toward. This will give you a clearer idea of what you’re naturally drawn to, which can help guide your decorating decisions.

3) Don’t Feel Like You Have to Choose Just One Aesthetic

Here’s the thing: real life isn’t a Pinterest board or a design show. You have free will. You're never limited to just one vibe. Your home can be an eclectic mix of modern, vintage, or anything else that speaks to you. What matters is that in the end it feels like home. In fact, mixing different elements is often what gives a space its personality. Maybe you love a bit of rustic charm mixed with sleek, contemporary pieces. Or you like blending cozy, vintage vibes with minimalist design. It’s all about finding what works together for you.

If you're curious, here’s a very rough breakdown of some common styles:

Modern: Clean lines, minimalist approach, not a lot of clutter.

Boho: Cozy, relaxed, lots of plants and vibrant colors.

Scandi: Light wood, simple design, airy and bright.

Farmhouse: Rustic, warm, a bit nostalgic.

Industrial: Raw materials like metal and wood, urban and edgy.

Mid-Century: Retro 60s vibes, clean lines, natural wood finishes.

Remember, you don’t have to fully commit to one style—just go with what feels right and blend them in a way that feels true to you.

4) Start With One Piece You Love

Don’t try to design the entire room in one go. That’s a surefire way to get overwhelmed and end up with things you regret. Start with one item that you absolutely love—whether it’s a chair, a rug, or a piece of artwork. When you find something that makes you go “YES,” build the rest of the room around it. It’ll give you a solid foundation and keep you focused on what you love rather than getting lost in trying to make everything match perfectly.

At the end of the day, you don’t need to fit your home into a specific label or trend. You just need to choose things that make you feel good and at ease in your space. Forget about the rules, trust your instincts, and don’t stress too much about getting it “perfect.” If it feels like you, then it’s already right.