Whose life is not confused

Xiao Hai is one of my readers. Two months ago, he sent a private message to say that he was bored with his current job. He was mechanically repeated day after day, working from 9 to 5, watching TV shows or playing games after work. He said he wanted to quit his job and live in Dali for a while to get his old self back. There are probably more than a few people like Xiao Hai. Living in the city, in a fast-paced and efficient state of life for a long time, it is very easy to produce the feeling of confusion. If you live, you don't know why you live. In your mind, you subconsciously start a game between money and yourself. It is difficult to walk between material life and spiritual life. Such confusion is a normal part of life. In fact, everyone is looking for balance in life, especially young people. I told Xiao Hai that it was OK to go to Dali, but it was not necessary to quit his job. It was better to ask for an annual leave and go out to relax. Have been to the distance, maybe just found the most beautiful in the side. Xiao Hai took my advice, asked for leave and set foot on the journey to Dali alone. During that time, I often received pictures from Xiao Hai in my private message. In the streets of the ancient city, I was fascinated by the songs of the wandering singers. The little sea in the setting sun narrowed its eyes gently; Beside the butterfly spring, little sea wearing beautiful garland, open arms, mouth, unbridled smile; On the shore of Erhai Lake, the small sea quietly looking at the calm lake, beside a yellow cat dozing, at that moment, the whole world seems to be quiet.

After the vacation, Xiao Hai returned to the original city and resumed his previous work. He calmly told me that, in fact, when I went to Dali, I would also feel confused, especially in the middle of the night when everything was quiet and a person in a foreign land would feel like life was suddenly like home. Sometimes sober, sometimes confused, this may be life.

Whose life is not confused? Confusion is a normal part of life. Don't worry. We all have lost days. The important thing is not to give up on yourself. The days without goals will soon pass. Just be present in this confusing episode of your life. In fact, everyone's life is the same, to experience a lot of joys and sorrows, there will be things, there will be trouble. When encountering a problem, the worst way to deal with it is to escape. Once you choose to escape, even if you have the wisdom to come up with a good solution, you will only degenerate yourself with the passage of time. Most of the time, the reason why you fall into the mood of confusion can not extricate themselves, perhaps because you put too much weight on the confusion, you exaggerate the weight of confusion. Confusion is really an insignificant part of our long life. Everyone has more or less their own periods of confusion. Everyone has moments when they can't find the way. In the moment, stop, close your eyes, and move on. Your vision may be clearer.

Please believe that confusion is never the background of life. It's just a dark cloud over your head. Dark clouds gather and disperse. Just walk past and you'll see clear skies.

Late at night, hitting the keyboard of me, also don't want to sleep, at this time, I picked up a book on the table to see the following words "you grow up in the problems encountered, are tailored for you. Get it out of the way, and you'll be one of those people who survives. You never know who you can be until you solve it.