When you want to give up, hold on a little longer

What are you thinking when you encounter something you can't get through?

I will first ask myself "how to do", then I will ask myself "do not do to get", and finally in persistence and give up to do the choice.

The reasoning is understood but does not necessarily do it.

Many times, I want to persist until the end, but still forced to choose to give up due to the pressure of reality, and this kind of thing has the first time, there will be a second or even countless times.

Each of us has had a similar journey, in giving up and insisting on the choice, thought to give up insisting on the timely stop, but did not want to step back, step back, so that life has increased a lot of "regret" regret.

Always can not help but think, if you stick to the end, whether there will be a different life.

So, when you want to give up and then persist a little so that their lives do not leave regrets, not so much "regret".

1. Do not complain about life

No one's life is smooth, and each has its difficulties, but some people choose to continue to survive, survived the hardships of life, and usher in their happiness.

Some people just complain about the bad life, complaining about this and that, only to let themselves magnify the bitterness of life, ignoring the happiness in front of them, and finally tossing away the happiness that is within their reach.

I watched a video, the two girls in the video is a good friends since childhood, the origin of similar two people, since the marriage began a different life, each other envious of each other's lives: one envied the other married into a rich family.

One envied the other for marrying into a wealthy family and not worrying about food, drink, and fun.

One envies the other for having a husband who loves her and loves her.

Later, they had the opportunity to swap lives and live the life they once envied, but they also experienced their difficulties: the life of rich people does not worry about food and drink, but their husbands cheat on them every day; the life of poor couples love, but it is difficult to buy a bag with frugal food.

Each has had regrets, but some people choose to be in the same boat with their loved ones.

The choice of each determines the subsequent fate, some lose everything, and some suffer.

Complaining about the fate of the change will not help, and even drag the leg, there is time to complain, rather than spend more time improving themselves.

Very often, in the face of life's hardships, rather than just complain, or envy the lives of others, only to try to get through, to harvest their happiness.

2. Do not give up lightly

I've heard a saying that makes sense.

Since we are born as human beings, it is impossible to have all the sweetness, there are various tastes in life.

Sweet, bitter, sour, pungent, and salty are the five tastes of life, so we can't just pick the sweet ones to eat, but we will also taste some other tastes.

Anyway, we have to experience, why make things difficult for ourselves, why not face everything in life with optimism, no matter the bitterness and happiness, are happy and live out they're own wonderful.

Many times, it seems that the suffering can not pass, in fact, as long as you persist a little longer, you will see a different result.

The thirty-day law of the lotus flower, although the flowers are blooming every day, it takes thirty days to completely open the entire lotus pond, the more critical it is at the end, the lack of a day is not allowed, otherwise, you will see at most only half of the pond flowers.

The so-called efforts that do not see the results are often just because you choose to give up before the "results appear", only to persist until the end, to get the desired results.

Not fate is difficult for you, but you give up on yourself, as long as you can see the results of a little more persistence, but because of fear of continuing to persist also useless and choose to give up.

It is said to be a timely stop, and how is it not courageous to face it?

A person who always sticks to the end, that will never see the final result, can only accept failure again and again.

So that the face of the unknown is everything, only do not give up lightly, efforts to the end, it is possible to get everything you want.