The Narcissist’s Need to Discard: How They Create Their False Reality

The act of throwing things away brings narcissists contentment.

In addition to humans, it encompasses everything else as well.

Take a look at these more types of being discarded.

Thoughts that are discarded

thinking that has been electrically short-circuited (shallowness, ideas that abruptly cease to exist)

Disconnection, can’t stay on topic, changing goal posts while arguing, and instantly dismissing or refusing to consider anything they dislike (this pretty much means everyone else’s ideas, including scientific reasoning, historical accounts, religion, pretty much anything you can imagine, as long as they dislike it, it’s discarded, including the theory of a round Earth) are all examples of behaviors that are considered to be disconnection.

Constructing non-sequitor conclusions or illogical sequences of thinking is one example of incoherence that may be created by derailing, twisting, and dishonest reframing.

They do not need a conclusion.

Think without reasoning, which results in pretend thinking that is more like a fable than it is immersive, scientific, and logical (and leads to gaslighting rather than investigative truth), and leads only to forgone conclusions and reinforcing lies. Refusing to introspect ideas, opinions, and ways of thinking that led to incorrect conclusions and, as a result, incorrect choices and negative consequences (resulting in incorrigibility and a never-ending cycle of the obsessive-compulsive disorder of doing harmful and evil things)

Losing Control of Emotions

If they want to sulk, nothing you do will improve their mood if they want to be happy, even if they’ve just hurt you and you are sulking, they’ll go on independently being happy they can get over hurt more easily than neurotypicals because they short-circuit their own emotions, practising dissociation and avoidance over their own trauma (they refuse to feel and introspect, hence they’ve discarded their hurt emotions, literally severed it from themselves, dissociating it into another persona)

Feel without feeling, which leads to phony emotions and contrived emotions while ignoring true, honest feelings and genuine responses to situations, refusing to introspect tough emotions, and feeling without feeling

Memory is being discarded.

Narcissists are unable to recall their feelings.

In order to recall falsehoods and forget the truth, narcissists often rewrite their memories in a dishonest manner.

Narcissists don’t remember their own lives clearly, instead they substitute their lack of memories with a dishonest fabricated narrative of their life they don’t remember anything good you’ve done for them they don’t remember anything bad they’ve done to you if it suits them, they won’t remember anything bad their hero has done to them if they have unpleasant feelings, it gets externalized onto you (projection, pus bag voiding on you)

They do not need forgiveness or reconciliation (they are perfectly content with your anger even if it lasts a lifetime; this is the reason why narcissists are not worth resenting; instead of harboring animosity against narcissists, you should simply cut off the connection and protect your heart from them).

Remember without having honest memories, which leads to fabricated fairy-tale accounts of their lives and events and no real identity (there is no one truly inside a narcissist because true identity is built on true memories, fabricated memories result in many actors for many occasions and therefore the fragmented, non-accountable self, which is similar to many dissociated and mutually non-aware selves, which is similar to a milder version of multiple personality disorder).

Avoiding to reflect on experiences that make one uncomfortable

Putting Conscience and Consequences Under the Bus

As a result of their actions, narcissists do not subject themselves to self-torture.

Not only do narcissists not recall what they have done, but they also make up stories that are both grandiose and dishonest about what they have done. As a result, there is no raw material available for self-examen.

The narcissists are unable to control their impulses, thus they do not consider before they do something that might be harmful or expensive.

The decisions that narcissists make are so idiotically short-sighted that they wreck not just their own lives but also the lives of everyone else. Narcissists don’t need to feel okay with themselves but they also don’t need to make peace with their conscience.

The attitude of ignoring any difficulties as they appear (no problems, no concerns, simply delete anything automatically) is the root cause of non-accountability, which is a natural consequence of this thinking.

The act of talking without thinking, expressing a wide variety of offensive things, and doing without thinking, which leads to behaviors that are both dumb and nonsensical, resulting in self-sabotaging behavior, and refusing to reflect on the implications of previous actions.

Putting the Future in the Bin

Refusing to empathize with their future selves, consuming the future rather than investing in it, alienating everyone until they eventually have no one to live with, just faking everything, treating reality as if it is inconsequential, acting as if tomorrow will never come, acting as if everyone is just a two-dimensional cardboard cutout, living purely only in the present, like a baby or an animal (which is not a good thing), and not having any forethought or afterthought, living purely only in the present, like a baby or an animal (which is not a good thing)

The act of discarding is a significant component of narcissism. Anything that does not conform to their inflated sense of self-importance is simply rejected, ejected, dismissed, ignored, and discarded by narcissists.

The reason for their inability to be changed is because they have halted their growth.

The phrase “disposing people” would really be simply another subtitle for this explanation, as well as for their existence of being discarded.

The narcissists throw away. Dismissal, disregard, and discarding are all synonyms.

In this way, narcissists approach life. This is what gives them such an inhumane quality. They have abandoned the characteristics that give us our humanity. Real thought, genuine emotions, a conscience, the capacity to learn, to develop ethically, and to mature are all essential.

It would have been impossible for them to develop into a narcissist if they hadn’t been so busy constantly getting rid of everything in their life.

This is an addendum:

Narcissists never experience happiness in their lives. A falsehood and an enormous illusion are the foundations of their bliss, which is a phony happiness. It is comparable to having faith in a fairy tale and gaining positive emotions as a result of hearing it. It is nothing but a falsehood and a dishonesty.

Despite the fact that it may temporarily trick your sight, false bliss is not the same thing as genuine happiness.

Consequently, whenever I speak about narcissists and happiness, I am really referring to the fabricated feelings that are the result of their thinking that is driven by illusion.

The reason why narcissists are so content after they have discarded something is because they have just resolved the issue of cognitive dissonance that they were experiencing.

They have given themselves with comfort by tossing away everything that is disagreeable in a careless manner.

Narcissists are able to discard because they are dedicated to living a lie. This is the reason why they do this.

On the other hand, living in reality is something different.

You are able to obey the Spirit of Truth when you live your life in truth.

However, if you choose to ignore the Spirit of Truth, you will be living a falsehood.

The most common methods to lie are as follows:

A untruth that is intentionally omitted is referred to as “discrimination.”

fabricated (the act of replacing truth with an untruth)

The Spirit of Truth is engaged in a conflict with falsehoods that cannot be resolved. This is shown by the fact that honest individuals despise lying, and it has been seen that being lied to is a source of anger for them.

It is also occurring that the complementary does. The spirit of deception is similarly engaged in an unwinnable conflict with the truth. Untrustworthy individuals take pleasure in lying and are unconcerned about being lied to.

Every time we come into contact with ideas, feelings, information, or other people, we are presented with a fresh opportunity to choose between truth and falsehoods.

An all-out struggle between the truth and lies has begun at this crossroads. Depending on whose side you are on, your response will be determined. When you thoughtfully analyze fresh information, you are serving the truth. Whenever you reject anything offhand, you are a prisoner to lying. In a compulsive manner, truth rejects lies. defy the truth with an obsessive behavior. In this case, there is no midway meeting. An emergent or meta-quality may be said to be associated with this phenomena. A mathematical series that either converges or diverges is analogous to an Evolutionarily Stable Strategy (ESS), which is another name for this. It is impossible to tell a half-truth or a half-lie. Even while there is ignorance, it is a very separate issue.

The greater the amount of lies that are inherent to your mind, the more allergic you will become to the truth in its entirety. After a certain point, it loses its ability to be reversed. A mind that is crooked will continue to be crooked, much like a crooked tree that has grown crooked.

Whenever we are presented with fresh knowledge or data, the Spirit of Truth prompts us to give it careful consideration. On the other hand, the spirit of lying drives us to irresponsibly and immediately overlook or discard everything that we find objectionable.

In addition, narcissists have aligned their lives with this spirit of deception and deception. Narcissists do not technically follow the spirit of lying (narcissists obey no one and nothing, they are pure arbitrariness), but the spirit of lie that inhabits the narcissist drives them to be at war with truth in a very stupid and persistent manner, and eventually with all truth.

Therefore, discardance is nothing more than a manifestation of the spirit of falsehood that resides inside the narcissist, which causes them to irrationally discard and reject possible facts whenever they come across them.

The reason why narcissists throw away information is because they do not want to entertain even the tiniest chance that they could inevitably discover the truth. The reason for their obsessive behavior is because of this. They have a strong desire to remain in reality, in the reassuring darkness that they have lived for their whole lives. All light is rejected by them.

There is a correlation between the amount of truth that something may possess and the likelihood that the narcissist would consider it to be unimportant.

The act of discarding anything was the beginning of everything that was wrong with a narcissist, including all that was rotten about their character and their fundamental crookedness.

Self-deceit, which is basically nothing more than the idea that “if I don’t like the truth, I don’t have to believe it,” was the first type of discardance that they engaged in.

It was from that germ of crookedness that a crooked mentality, a career of crooked deals, and a terrible tree that only produces bad fruit emerged.

17 Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit.

18 A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit.

19 Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.

20 Therefore by their fruits you will know them.

Bible Gateway passage: Matthew 7:15–20 — New King James Version