See through human nature: pretend to be poor to acquaintances, show off wealth to strangers

Getting along with people is a kind of learning. Society is the synthesis of interpersonal relationships. The relationship between people should always follow the rules.

If you want to have status and security in society, you should neither stand too high nor too low. Mastery is one thing; mastery of human nature is another.

The human nature of the bad eradication of poverty, love the rich hold high trample low, there are good people around.

Only by mastering the mentality of those who have intersection with themselves can we get along with them easily.

Zengguang Xian Wen has a saying: "Poor in the downtown no one asks, rich in the mountains have distant relatives, do not believe but look at the wine in the banquet, cup to honor the rich first." There is no exaggeration in this sentence, it is completely realistic.

One's status is on full display at the dinner table. Whether you are toasted by others, or you are toasted by others, the attitude is clear.

I saw a video on the Internet, in which an honest man respectfully raised his glasses and tried to clink them with others, but they just brushed each other and drank them all, ignoring them.

After a while, the man holds the full glass and toasts the person next to him. The person directly presses the glass down with one hand, and picks up his own glass and clink it with another person.

It's not just in jokes, it's in real life.

It is easy to see one's status in the crowd. In this utilitarian society, no one will save face for others without any reason.

Of course, there are some people who are very self-educated and will not deliberately embarrass others, but can only be polite. People are not meant to be alike.

Emotional relationships often depend on getting to know each other and how one person feels about the other.

Most of the trouble in life comes from relationships. If you want to live with less troubles, you have to learn how to deal with people.

We should not only live authentically, but also live realistically. Everything should not only stand in their own position to think about the problem, but also take into account the other party's ideas and cognition.

Human nature has always been averse to the poor and the rich. If you want to gain the recognition of strangers, you have to prove your strength. If you want to escape the squeeze of acquaintances, you have to know how to hide your weakness.

Thus, a wise man will pretend to be poor to acquaintances and show off his wealth to strangers.

If you look closely, it's your business partners who really want you to get better, and your friends and relatives who are willing to see you fail or go bankrupt.

Reality is always sad, can not see you good people are never far away, and in the side.

Those who stab in the back are often the most familiar, familiar enough to know where the knife will hurt the most.

Better an open enemy than a false friend, the old saying goes. The malice of strangers is "open gun", the calculation of people around is "stab in the back".

To get along with acquaintances is to establish a relationship that makes the other side feel less threatening. If you are not as good as the other side, the other side will most likely treat you sincerely, even if they look down on you.

Show your strength when dealing with strangers. Only in this way can you gain trust and secure a solid partnership.

Under normal circumstances, the relationship between acquaintances is mutual consumption, in front of acquaintances too love to show or cause psychological imbalance to each other, or let each other "high hopes" for you, this time once your enthusiasm is not in place, the other party will hold a grudge.

You know, it's not wrong to eat meat without sharing it with others, but it's wrong to smash your mouth in front of people.

Avoid flaunting wealth in front of acquaintances, pretending to be poor is the right choice, after all, the more familiar with people, the stronger the jealousy.

Philosopher Bacon said: people can allow a stranger to rise, but can not forgive a person around the rise!

Pretending to be rich in front of strangers is to make people want to get to know you better. Pretending to be poor in front of acquaintances is to keep expectations low.

Strangers despise the poor, acquaintances love to compare.

People are more willing to meet rich people they don't know, but they can't accept the sudden success of those around them. Because knowing rich people makes you look superior, and the wealth of those around you makes you look even more incompetent.

Human nature, after all, can not get rid of vanity.