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Love yourself is the most important thing in life

How to love yourself

By Cecilia P AshfordPublished 3 years ago 4 min read

Many times, we do not know how to love ourselves, love yourself is a process of living your own life. So how do we need to love ourselves in life? The most important thing to love yourself is to learn to let yourself relax.

We don't love ourselves enough, we don't know how to let ourselves relax, when you know how to let yourself relax, you can really

Love yourself is a deep awareness that you are the master of your life, so how do we love ourselves, the most important thing to develop is to focus on the inner feelings of self, according to psychological findings, true love of self, allows us to establish an intimate and deep connection with ourselves and others, this is the most important way we love ourselves.

So how do we love ourselves, we share with you today a few ways that we can learn to truly love ourselves.

First, spend some quiet time with yourself every day

In the process of growing up in life, the most important thing to love yourself is to learn to spend some quiet time with yourself. When you know how to have a quiet time with yourself, your heart will be quiet.

Many people are afraid to spend time with themselves, they are restless. Once alone, they feel particularly uncomfortable, they like to call on friends, which makes it difficult for them to quiet down inside.

The university once said, know stop and then quiet, quiet and then peace, peace and then fixed. The essence of a person settling down is to know how to learn to stop for a while first, which is the key to our growth and the root of our growth.

Many people are afraid to stop themselves, so they are used to replacing their quietness with their busyness, which causes them to have a hard time hearing their hearts as well.

The truth is that learning to spend quiet time with ourselves gives us a good way to hear our inner hearts and a good way to understand and know what we want to do.

Second, go into nature properly

People are never man-made. Loving ourselves is finding the right place for ourselves. Loving ourselves requires that we allow ourselves to go into nature, into the forest, to feel the wisdom and vastness of nature, and to realize that we are part of a system.

It is easy to be arrogant at times, and it is easy to lose ourselves in relationships, which is essentially our inability to find out who we are.

And a proper walk in nature gives us a sense of order within ourselves and calms us more. The green of nature is the most soothing to our inner restlessness, so going into nature connects with our inner infinity.

If we feel restless and uncertain inside, we can properly walk into nature, listen to the heavenly sounds of nature, and blend with the landscape, we will feel inexplicably quiet.

To truly love ourselves is not to wrap ourselves in many things, but to love ourselves is to enable us to be calm and quiet, and to become more peaceful and at ease within ourselves.

Third, stay with others with your heart

Truly loving ourselves is being attentive to the people we spend every moment with. To love ourselves is to feel with our hearts the flow of light and time in front of us, to love ourselves is to pay attention with our hearts to the person in front of us, his state, his look, his condition.

Being with others with our hearts can make us feel a long-lost touch and make us more aware of the interconnectedness of each other's lives.

A good life does not allow itself to be lived in the imagination of the ego. Often the trouble with relationships is that we are distracted.

And learning to be with each other mindfully, listen to each other's feelings, and communicate with each other mindfully, can make our lives more meaningful.

A good life is one of self-growth and self-fulfillment, but also one that enhances the breadth and height of one's life. Being with each other with the heart is often also quality companionship.

Loving yourself is never just living in your world; loving yourself is essentially a process of opening yourself fully to feel the world and others.

Fourth, feel your body and activate yourself

Loving yourself is also the process of connecting with your body. Ask yourself how long has it been since you have connected with yourself.

How long has it been since you felt your own body? I often hear a lot of people talk about using and overspending their bodies for their jobs.

For these habits of overusing our bodies, if we don't know how to appease and thank our bodies in time and thank them properly, our bodies will have all kinds of problems.

Feeling our inner body is essentially the best way to honor ourselves and to let us know where we are not feeling well.

True growth comes from learning to look within ourselves all the time, to feel our body better, to feel our inner self, and if our inner self is clear, we can be our best self.

Loving ourselves is building a true connection with ourselves. When we learn to love ourselves, we can gradually know ourselves better, we will know how to live our best self, we will know who we are, where we are going, and how we are going to do it, and this is a process of gradual awakening and gradual clarity of consciousness.

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