Kindness that many dastardly couldn’t have easily ignored.

Exploring the nooks and crannies of Kindness that many —dastardly—couldn’t have easily ignored.

Kindness, for what it does, could ,at times, turn somewhat ironic.

It can replace one goodness to the other, as a wholesome act.

Unhinged so, kindness then, can stem out of the vital ,as though, all of it has gone a long way off to bring ambiguities and insights to challenge or destabilize many diehards.

In terms of the goodwill , kindness offers a bewitching eye of virtuousness, ensuring goodnesses, more so than ever to provide promising solace.

But, along its wantonly-waywardly ways, kindness can create a possibility of a “whimsical polarity,” as it dresses up —despicably—to overkill it’s —very own —demure nature. Such an act dares to cross over to other side of the worldly ways.

It is there where all kinds of kindnesses could digress, within those flowery contexts, and position themselves in a refreshingly unorthodox manner. But before we denigrate all kinds of kindnesses we might ask : is it not what in effect, it might ( actually) propose to do, while reiterating its “must point,” in doing so.

And if, we were to slipper those types of “kindnesses,” then it is likely that most of us might draw up our own faces in front of them. After all, we are bound to bump into such logics ( knowingly or unknowingly) one day or another. And attempting to specify or state one such kindness, might be like, cheerfully surprising ourselves with its abounding quality( to obdurate,) especially when, it would not have meant —anything to anyone, or pretended to have been such an illuminating virtue.

So then be the case —let us suppose, when kindness keeps on pegging at us with its own cynical realism such as pestering us to turn our own hand against us. Perhaps then, one might want to say —kindness is “fixed,” by some other rationale, assuming to do or move along a different agenda.

For example—many historical questions pertaining to the “psyche,” of various historical figures.

Indeed, such queries, where —no settling answers could be found, men were determined to find consensus in “ agreeing to disagree,” and cease from any kind of kind doings.

So Kindness, (for one thing as a settling answer, ) is what it does —for others, to better the kind of feelings it grows in others.

In a sort of a way, kindness shouldn’t be taken as an ‘act’ of filling an empty pot of clay with whatever ( compost or rubbish,) one thinks as conducive in turning over kind goodnesses.

Perhaps if it were not for the moral issues involved with kindness, it cannot be considered as merely laying down arbitrary actions. In terms of accruing goodnesses many forms of kindnesses could strain out many innocents.

For kindness to savor a part of the inner psyche, the way one sees the outer environment matters. Of course what is considered “authentic kindness,” is purely a part of anybody’s repository. But when one tries to make kindness—individualistic or part of a group —as a whole, one is made to ponder about —what exactly it does or mean to each individual or together, as in, a cohort. In this manner kindness could be put to test in varied contexts.

For example:

Let’s call the context of US immigration and it’s tokens of concerns for the illegal immigration reform as a quickener of kind feelings. And herein lies a “counter intuitive logical approach,” lain in terms of the delays in the legal immigration system. Such reforms ( colossally) could be viewed as a polluted conscience of many involved in it. So in ways “American dream,” carries with it a “stigmatized kindness,” ridden in “unkindly adventures,”especially for those simmering in the make beliefs of being “self made.” Thereupon, even if, a few somehow survive the attritions of —such decaying kindnesses yet, their “truest faith,” harks over “unkeepable harmonies,”offering greater conflict on all domains (political, racial, sexual and moral,) upon arrival. Thusly when generations lose self in the bargain of living those “rights of passage,” where will such great aims thoroughly and earnestly reflect speakable splendors of kindness.

In accessing kindness from this angle, arguably, everything can become a matter of judgment because the experiential matter could be found to be fictive as facts are sensed( around) only when one sees them as part of their individual needs.

Where am I ? Incisively here — right here, right now 😊

So a certain amount of empathy is needed for the wonderful kindness to unfold, bloom and flourish effectively hereafter.

The enduring beliefs in such (cross cultural )contexts within which, both the keepable and un-keep-able traditions are questioned ,and therein—how kindness actually fares (amidst such cultural carnage,) can be a reawakening!

Yet even in the current political scenarios of the US immigration, considerable number of leaders debate over immigration reform as though it were an emblem of their fond associations to kindle sympathetic condolences 💐. Rather than—actually distributing (openly) their most pleasing effects of benevolence, they choose to kindly dodge over discourses as though they are adjudicating towards statements like—“ if truth be told.” In short , it’s a piecemeal approach; each to his or her own agenda. Why shouldn’t they ?! —you may ask?! After all , they have earned it —rightfully ?! Nothing like —don’t ask ,don’t even tell types … Nah,nay, nowhere near like that.

Uh hum —Oh 😬 such kindnesses!

Notice … noticed … how kind of you to do that ..

Ironically, the eclipsing spirit to influence the whole truth is —again —kindness. It passes and repasses through political debates as though it was meant to bear the heaviest burden of so many faltering ( kind) virtues .

A Kindness must rebirth ( itself,) to rebuild its own grace to sear power over statehood.

Mystery lies therein!

If one ☝️were to dig 🔍 👀 🔦 deep into kindness’s past, then one is likely to go undisguised (stark naked,) about its doings.

For whosoever shall think of kindness, worth its’ while, shall stand to consider —its bare notions, and therein, merit in its logic and grace.

So let me jump in once again and talk about ( no medals 🏅 for guessing it thus far) kindness as a diligent cultivation; a sort of a philosophic discipline, shaping minds and souls to follow nothing —but—pure goodness.

Okay, kudos points( to you 🙏) if I could hold your attention this far…. and hopefully you shall read the upcoming part …

Personal anecdote:

In Honor of Kindness: More done than said !

Ironically, it’s an imperative that’s been staging me “ to be or not to be,” for quite some time.

Yeah, that’s kindness, indeed!

In the world of everyday, shares and cares—somehow—many of my kindnesses have collected all kinds of grudges and grouches.

The ultimate sweepstake being that many have kept a watch on me with open mouthed wonder.

Here’s an instance where my kindness fell short of many expectations. At the root of my action was this dilemma claiming to offer a—“do or die,” situation. In the most familiar sense, the context was aiming to determine whether my actions were purely my own enterprise or were they an embodiment of “group-thinks.”

One time I applied for a job of a swim coach. It was a time when I was desperate to move ,some way or another, to fit into the world of work.

The interviewer asked me : “Can you swim ?”

Fearlessly I responded: “No, but I can wade through waters.”

To that, the interviewer said: “Glad you are here. Our learners can hardly tread.

Please jump in!

Learners open mouthed exclaimed: “undoubtedly, we go with her-drowning. It’s a “kamakazee! “

It is said , Kindness is what kindness does.

Additionally, If I were to make an epic illustration of my kindness as a ready inclination then I was, there, in a timely manner but, in terms of its measure and adequacy in doing right —I was dastardly dangerous.

Lessons to Learn: Listen, the way of the words can confine and confuse many. Following it half way through can be a direct disaster. It’s like letting the puzzle of understanding cast it’s clouds over the passing hues of thought.

Sometimes the measure 📏 of kindness can harbor in shadows of grace , as though taking measure for all measures, much before the rest of the 💡 light is seen 😜

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© ✍️ Madhu Goteti September 10th 2024