I love you, but you love him, so that's it
True love is based on mutual satisfaction

True love is built on two of a kind of feeling, I would like to you, on the basis of two people trust each other respect each other appreciate each other, truly thought the other side is your ideal partner, a kind of living attitude to exchanges, two personal feelings often maintain for a long time, because everyone is not willing to break contact with each other, two personal life on the intersection of also will more and more, Eventually the relationship will become more and more profound.
On the contrary, in the relationship between two people, you love each other, but the other person is not interested in you, or, he is with you, lack of a serious attitude, obviously at this time you are "wishful thinking", you want to get a satisfactory result may be a little difficult.
Since you can't get the satisfactory result you want, you should learn to accept the reality and not deceive yourself so as not to get bored in the end.
At this point, you should be brave to say to the other person, "I love you, but you love him, so that's it." When you say it out loud, you will probably feel a lot lighter. You will feel that life is alive and full of possibilities.
1. You have a crush on him, but he has someone else.
When two people are together, you are madly infatuated with each other and look forward to the day when you can be together with each other.
You get to know each other, pay attention to each other's life situation, offer to do something for each other, give some gifts to each other, and then you find that the other person already has their heart, you hardly have the chance.
What are you going to do at this point?
No matter whether the other party and the opposite sex together, alone with the other party in the heart of someone else, at this time, if you do not appreciate, finally will encounter the "south wall".
"Strong twist melon is not sweet", if the other side of the heart without you, no matter you are unrequited, or can not put down the other side, struggling to pester each other, finally also just self boring, let yourself embarrassed.
In this case, it is early to accept the reality, since the other party has no feelings for themselves, there is no need to deceive themselves, self-deprecation. There is no need to spend most of your time and youth on someone who doesn't look down on you. When you really invest your time and energy in yourself, you will find that you have many choices and your life path will become more and more open.
2. You're a couple and he moves on.
The other person has said sweet words to you, the other person has really loved you, has also used some warm behavior to warm you, you have vowed to stay together.
However, suddenly one day, you find that his feelings for you have qualitative changes, he fell in love with someone else when he came and went with you, he betrayed the oath between you once, you finally go to the step of breaking up.
You want to give each other a chance, hope that the other side can turn back, but the other side does not need you to give him a chance to change, he ate weight iron heart, is not to be with you, at this time, you can take him how to do?
Yes, the person who is unfaithful is each other, your heart is unwilling.
But if you don't, what can you do? What can be changed? This paragraph of affection in his change of heart that moment, has been like a broken glass, already difficult to recover.
Accept the fact that your partner has been unfaithful, betrayed your relationship and betrayed your trust, and let this failed relationship end.
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John Wilson
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