How To Spot Toxic Traits In A Partner

Finding the telltale indications of a toxic relationship is not always simple. In reality, a lot of individuals are in unhealthy relationships without even being aware of it. 

I was one of them~

If your partner regularly behaves in ways that are inconsiderate or disrespectful, it's a sign that the relationship is unhealthy and may be poisonous.

There are a few universal indicators that a relationship is poisonous.

Watch out for these habits if your partner is making you nervous:

Inconsideration & Disrespect

A toxic partner will regularly act in ways that are inconsiderate or disrespectful toward you. 

This may include belittling you, making fun of you, or making hurtful comments; neglecting your needs, or regularly putting their own needs above yours.

Manipulation & Control

A toxic partner may make various attempts to trick or dominate you. 

They could try to dictate your activities, friends, clothing, diet, and other aspects of your life. 

They could also make you feel guilty or worthless in an effort to manipulate your emotions.

A manipulative or domineering spouse is an indication of an unstable and potentially hazardous relationship.

Additionally, toxic partners may be possessive and envious. 

They can try to keep you apart from your loved ones. 

They could be extremely judgmental and critical.

You could get the feeling of being on thin ice if you're in a toxic relationship.

You could think you're not good enough or that everything needs to be done properly.

Physical & Emotional Abuse

Your relationship is probably unhealthy if your partner regularly criticizes you and speaks negatively of you.

Your self-esteem can be seriously damaged by verbal abuse of this nature, and it may even trigger depression.

Emotional Abuse

Many of the obvious indicators of emotional abuse and manipulation may be ones you are already aware of. 

However, it might be simple to overlook the early, undetectable indicators of abuse while you're dealing with an abusive scenario.

The goal of emotional abuse is to terrorize, dominate, or isolate the victim. Although there is no physical violence involved in this sort of abuse, you or your loved ones may be the target of threats. 

It is demonstrated by a person's words, deeds, and consistency of these behaviors.

Even though abuse may begin gently, it persists.

Physical Abuse

When it comes to physical abuse in relationships, it frequently begins subtly, as with a shove or a slap, and then gets worse over time.

Physical assault is never acceptable.

Signs:

- you feel afraid of your partner all the time

- you steer clear of certain topics to avoid making your partner angry

- you feel like you can't do anything right, or that you're walking on eggshells because of their anger and rage.

An abuser will frequently attribute their violent behavior to the victim or some third party by blaming them for whatever the victim said or did. 

They can claim that their actions were brought on by stress, frustration, or being under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

Financial Abuse

Domestic abuse occurs when someone close to you manages your finances, prevents you from having access to money, and makes you dependent on them for support.

Spiritual Abuse

Having your own thoughts about religion, culture, and morals is prohibited by spiritual domestic violence.

It could also entail making you question your spiritual beliefs in an effort to make you feel helpless.

Spiritual abuse often involves attempting to make someone feel ashamed and restricting their ability to practice their religion or cultural values.

What to do when being in an abusive relationship:

Get help from a domestic violence hotline.

It is important to seek help from a professional as soon as possible. |

If you are in immediate danger, call your local police. 

If you are not in danger but need someone to talk to, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline.

DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS THAN WHAT YOU DESERVE!

Blessings…