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How to see through someone's psychology?

The human psyche is impenetrable!

By GQ MrPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Single girls who frequently post selfies in their social media circles are not worth pursuing. Just based on this, it's worth giving you a thumbs-up.

ocial group names like "A+Name+Phone Number" mostly belong to real estate agents, salespeople, or merchants. Such individuals fear not being found by others.

When meeting someone of the opposite sex for the first time and their pupils suddenly dilate, it indicates they are interested in you or you startled them.

If a girl constantly posts selfie collages in her social media, she might have a bit of narcissism. Such individuals crave praise, so if you want to establish a good relationship with her, just compliment her looks directly.

When someone is looking at their phone and you unexpectedly glance at them, causing them to immediately lock the screen and nervously look at you, it means they are viewing content they don't want to show. If you're interested, you could check their browsing history.

People who can take criticism without changing their expression or heartbeat and correct their mistakes are truly admirable. Those who don't correct their mistakes despite criticism aren't wise; they're like pigs unafraid of hot water.

People who know that double-tapping the screen has a hidden function tend to be sensitive and observant.

Those who reveal everything upon first acquaintance and treat you like family upon getting familiar aren't friendly; they're lonely.

The higher your expectations of someone, the greater the disappointment when they fail to meet them. Instead of lowering expectations for yourself, lower expectations for others and any relationships. I once read online: Many couples within my circle of friends and acquaintances eventually married, but quite a few were unfaithful in their romantic journey. Some stories are understood by all, even concealed by us. Every wedding, I watch the newlyweds tearfully recite vows and never doubt their sincerity in that moment. Yet human nature is profoundly complex. Having witnessed countless experiences, I understand everything yet believe in nothing. A mature person can understand the baseness and fickleness of human nature, hence they have lower expectations for others. It's not that I don't believe in your current sincerity; it's just that the road ahead is long, and I can't be certain your current sincerity will endure till the end. Gradually, you'll see that any relationship eventually reaches a point of balance. Whether it's romantic, friendly, or familial, it's the same. The pampering, fondness, and care you receive from others are like credit card debt that will need to be repaid one day. Therefore, don't hold too high of an expectation. People are easily capable of disappointing you.

People who always leave themselves a way out when doing things are often meticulous in their thinking. Behind every seemingly ordinary yet internally strong individual, there's a side hustle supporting their confidence.

If someone in your circle always stands out, behaves differently from the majority, it means they're not on the same level as you. I know an engineer who retired at a young age, receiving a monthly pension of over ten thousand. To pass the time, he works for the property management of his residential complex, purely for enjoyment. While others go to work feeling dead inside, he's as happy as can be every day.

No matter what topic you bring up, they'll say, "I have a friend who does xx, earning so many tens of thousands per month." Clearly, these individuals lack much skill, and their so-called friends aren't all that connected to them.

To truly understand whether a family is well-off, observe how the female elders in the family dress. Don't judge solely by someone driving a BMW or Audi; their mother might be sweeping the same street they drove down.

People who share everything about their family, mother-in-law, spouse, and personal matters on social media have no hidden agenda.

Those who speak logically and have meticulous thinking often have a habit of reading.

Individuals who constantly post about eating gourmet food, visiting scenic spots, and driving luxury cars on social media aren't necessarily wealthy. People who frequently share a line or two of literary phrases on their friend's timeline aren't necessarily truly cultured; these individuals generally haven't read much. You must believe that truly wealthy and talented people rarely seek attention and a sense of superiority through such low methods.

When the brows tighten while simultaneously pressing lips tightly, it signifies someone is controlling their emotions or holding back the need to urinate.

When someone is recounting an event and their eyes shift upwards to the left, they're recalling details and context. If their eyes move upwards to the right, they're fabricating and inventing.

When you're talking to someone and their eyebrows lift, it indicates surprise or skepticism about what you're saying. Conversely, if they're questioning you and their eyebrows lift, it means they already know the answer to the question they're asking you, and they're asking with a purpose.

The reason you feel too much pressure is that you're overthinking things and reading excessively.

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