How do you get through the lows?

There is a certain metaphysical aspect to this article, which you may find nihilistic. But if you're having a bad day, you've tried everything and failed, you laugh but feel bitter inside, you occasionally toss and turn at night and spend two minutes reading this article. (To some extent, the article also soothed anxiety.) Pigs fly when they stand in the wind. There are probably a few people in your life who can actually fly. They may have successfully taken advantage of an opportunity, or they may have come across advice from important people, or they may be competent and have a long-term vision. But you're not a "flying man," or even a "flying pig." No matter what you try, it's like a stone falling into a deep pool. You can't see the bottom of the pool, you don't know what's happening "on the stone, there's no reaction. You seem to be stuck in an invisible blind alley. No matter what we did, it had no effect. Life goes on, heavy tasks, complicated relationships, as usual, but now you feel more like you're being pushed forward, and whether you like it or not, it's hard to change the status quo, half-forced to move on. If you're right, read on; If all the symptoms do not fit, then congratulations, you are now in a good mood and luck, seize the opportunity to move forward. It was certainly no use waiting for death when he found himself at a disadvantage. So you seek help, consult experienced people, try to get good sources of information, take a bunch of Photoshop classes... Toss about a circle, as if some harvest, and as if useless. You don't know what to do, you don't know what to do, you don't know the future, you don't know if you are on the right path, you don't know if what you give now will become a future gain -- even if it is a small gain. Now do what, no echo, pay such as stone in the sea, do not know the future will suddenly return to their side. What the hell is going on here? First of all, you need to know that this situation is not your fault, nor is god trying to screw you. You have to believe that there are many people in the world who suffer just like you, some worse than you. If, among other things, you feel "stuck," you're out of luck. "Luck" here is "luck" for at least a long time, then it should be called "luck". In numerology, the amount of luck divided by the amount of time, and the greatest influence on life is the great luck. Every decade brings good luck. Smooth sailing, flying in the sky is common; Unfortunately, a lifetime of condescending, empty talent, not a few. There's one that's perfect for this. It's called "grave transport" -- and you could be in it. As the name suggests, it's like being locked in a boxy enclosed space where you can't go anywhere else, exhausted, confused and anxious about what to do next. At this point, the best solution is to wait it out quietly and patiently. You must be wondering if there is a proactive approach, such as how to end it. I'm sorry. If so, it won't change. It is hard for one to know one's destiny, let alone change it. It is said that ways that can change a person's life are not only evil, but also cause unnecessary disaster. The best thing for you right now is to hibernate quietly and wait for the day when your luck turns and you can go out and do what you can. But waiting doesn't mean sitting there doing nothing but waiting. Since god is destined to spend this time in this narrow space, when others finish, no matter what they do, they end up standing still. Then calm down, learn something, think about life, read a book, eat a good meal, spend time with your family. This is a good time to keep a low profile and reserve strength. That's what makes it unique. It's like God gave you a little long vacation. It may seem like everyone else is moving faster and leaving you in the same place, but really, it's just the luck of different people. This is one of the few times adults can focus on self-improvement. When you calm down to accept the fate of the arrangement, reading meditation, secretly progress, in the fate of the turning day, you can firmly seize the opportunity given to you in front of the fate, grasp the momentum, rise up. King Goujian of Yue ten years lying grass taste gall, and your ten years, is arranged for you by God, no matter how you spend, expired will be taken away. Since there is no opportunity, it is better to calmly accept, calm down, study hard, invest in yourself, and wait. After reading this article, if you're a young person and feeling insecure, that's perfectly normal. Young people do not believe in fate unless there is great pain. And for a middle-aged person who has experienced life, do not believe in life, it is extremely rare. John Tsang once said that if a man does not believe in life at middle age, he has not lived to understand it. "Time, luck and fate." "When the time comes, heaven and earth will work together, and heroes will not be free." Of course, in this article, you don't need to care too much if you have entered the so-called tomb luck, it is just a kind of moral support to let you know that the current predicament is not all because of you, fate often intervenes more than man. Knowing what you can't control helps you feel safer and be able to focus on what's happening in the moment, rather than getting caught up in the anxiety of being betrayed by the outside world and worrying about others' progress. Everyone has a different script. Young glory, may be middle-aged down and out; A clumsy youth may become a rich old man. These things seem to be nothing, but they can give me the determination to support when I am most vulnerable, which is also a kind of fate. I thought if these things helped me, maybe they could help you now. "Fate has forcibly blocked your will to communicate with the outside world, locking you in a small space. Maybe it is heaven's advice that you should study and think more and give yourself more energy." "When the time comes, it will give you change. When the time comes, as long as you borrow their own strength, a little operation, otherwise I in addition to your comments carefully. Some friends said to adjust the mentality of the problem, if the "mentality collapse" has been for a period of time, not a day or two can turn around, do not blame yourself, mentality repair is a long-term process, can not be rushed. These net is auxiliary means, serious word must go normal hospital, normal hospital nobody can joke you -- walk in the street, feel everybody is very healthy, arrived at a hospital, just discovery is a patient, who is qualified, who bear to laugh at others? Now it sounds like chicken soup... A few more long-winded words: the truth is understood, the successful implementation of the people are few, do not need to their own special hard. Some writers (like me), although they rattle on about a lot of important facts, are still at a loss when it comes to them. They're all human, and some things are the same about them. Don't get upset because "he seems to be doing better than I am" or "he laughs at me." If it comes down to him, he probably can't do it any better than you can. Similarly, when someone jokes about your situation, don't pay attention -- who knows if they're crying when you're laughing? There are six things to remember that will make you lucky. Life is a battle between yourself and yourself, your biggest enemy is yourself, if you think life is not easy, it is because you are not strong enough; If you feel that everything is not going your way, it is because you are incompetent; If you think you're in a bad situation, it's because your mindset isn't good enough... Most of life's problems are your own. Only when you solve your own problems can you solve your life problems, emotional problems and career problems. Life is a contest with yourself, your biggest enemy, is always yourself, you only defeat yourself, defeat yourself, to defeat yourself, win life, win life, there is no other way. It is better to strive for the future and regret for the past than regret for the past. It's no use regretting the past. Instead of regretting the past, fight for the future. The past, no matter how good, no matter how bad, did wrong, missed, all in the past, has become the past, do not worry about, do not care about. Life should look forward, move forward, don't because of the past, destroy the present, bury the future. Yesterday's sorrow should not waste today's tears, nor should it ruin tomorrow's beauty. There are always some regrets and regrets in life, live well now, struggle for the future, on the way in the future, leave some regrets and regrets. No matter how hard the life is, no matter how anxious the mood is, no matter how bad the work is, you should not complain, complaining is useless, instead of complaining, it is better to change yourself. The most useless thing in life is complaining. I really don't know what you're going to get out of this other than trouble, trouble. Complaining is the stupidest thing and the least worthwhile. The more you complain, the harder your life gets; The less you complain, the better your life will be. Your life, your life, will be more exciting if you stop complaining and find ways to change yourself. There is no life without difficulties. Life will be blessed, no big deal, no big deal to start over. In the face of life, in the face of life, we lack nothing, nothing is needed, we just need to have the courage to start again. In fact, there are no obstacles in life, only unexpected, unexpected people, everything will be solved. Difficult is difficult, bitter is bitter, tired is tired, but eventually will become the past. He who lives will be blessed. He who has tasted the most bitter, tasted the most sweet, carried the most tired, smelled the most cool and experienced hardships will succeed. All the suffering, is the best test for us! The day does not know the night, and the night always longs for the arrival of the dawn. When you're at rock bottom, when you fail, when you're down, you want to get back up, there's light, there's dawn, but it's never that easy. Before the dawn, before the dawn, there is always a dark moment, no one can hide, no one can escape, we have to accept and face. Groping in the dark, moving forward in the dark, experiencing yourself in the dark, don't be afraid, go ahead bravely, hang in there, endure, hang in there, carry on, the dawn will come forever. Prepare for the worst, and you will have the best result in life. 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