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Don't worry about answers in life, the present is the best

Regret is always the norm in life

By Charles ZhangPublished 2 years ago 5 min read

Life doesn't have to worry about answers, the present is the best.

Most people are constantly making choices, wanting to choose a good school during their studies and finding a secure job after entering society. Seeing others switch careers and start businesses to make a lot of money, I have become restless again and am ready to quit and give it my all.

Life always looks back and forth, wanting sesame seeds and watermelons. The human heart is lacking, and the snake devours the elephant.

Mr. Yang Jiang once said that life is not all about flowers and brocade. Nothing is better than contentment from the bottom of one's heart. In this world of fireworks, everything is worth it, and everything is also regrettable.

What is happening now can also be considered a fate. Since you have chosen, keep going. I have heard a saying that existence is reasonable. Some of the photos we took in the past were considered very ugly at the time. But after many years, unintentionally being dug up, I felt so amazed at that time.

In fact, the present is already the best. People always blind their eyes at some point, and only when they look back do they realize what was good back then. Learning to face the present is wise, there is no need to be confused about the future, let alone regret the past that has passed.

Be brave to embrace the upcoming tomorrow, and never be anxious about today.

1、 Live well now, and it will be better in the future

A person's current state shows whether they are walking smoothly or hard on this path. In fact, many things are imagined by the brain, undoubtedly adding unnecessary troubles to oneself, which can only be said to be overthinking!

Carnegie once said that 90% of the things you worry about won't happen. Instead of daydreaming there, it's better to do what needs to be done now, as the probability of the remaining 10% happening decreases once again.

In the Complete Biography of Ji Gong, it is said that it is a blessing rather than a disaster, and it is a disaster that cannot be avoided. What should come will come, there's no need to worry. Mr. Yang Jiang said that when people grow up, they should face the chaos and chaos outside calmly.

(1) Today is the beginning of tomorrow

Think about it carefully, if you have lived well today, tomorrow will definitely not be bad either. If you are in a good mood now, it will definitely drive a series of good things to happen later. As the saying goes, people feel refreshed during happy events. As long as a person remains happy, no matter what they do, it will be more smooth sailing.

For example, if your phone falls to the ground, you would joke to yourself and say, 'Isn't God asking me to get a new phone?' You might even think it's a way to save money and prevent disasters.

Overall, nothing happening at the moment will affect you, but it will all develop in a positive direction. In this way, only good things happen, life becomes comfortable, and life will get better and better.

(2) Strive to live the present well

When you give your all to do something well, it will definitely present a good result. Life is long, what could be more meaningful than doing it now.

Think about it, every step forward in the future will be associated with the present moment. A towering building rises from the ground, and your foundation determines your height.

Is it really important how you're doing now? Yes, it's too important. Don't worry about how people around you encourage you, you should have a firm goal, because unrealistic ideas like daydreaming and aiming too high are unrealistic.

Only in this moment can you change, and the future depends on how hard you work today!

No one can have a clear idea of what they will be in the future, but you can decide who you are now, where you want to go, and what you want to be. You can start doing it.

2、 Cherish the present, tomorrow will come naturally

Cherishing every minute and second of today is equivalent to accumulating wealth for tomorrow.

(1) No matter how things go now, time still moves forward mercilessly

Don't just stand there, it will only make time slip away in vain and won't bring you any benefits. If you master more skills now, you may be able to reap rewards ten or hundreds of times in the future.

Since we cannot control the future, why not firmly grasp the present. With more possibilities in life, there will be more hope.

Make every effort to exert maximum strength, so that now we have greater abilities and become stronger!

(2) Caring about you now is equivalent to valuing your future

Even if the whole world looks down on you, don't give up on yourself. A person believes in themselves before others believe in them. Whenever and wherever, always cheer yourself up.

Never do anything that undermines your own authority by making others arrogant. You should know that being too modest becomes inferiority complex; Once you become overconfident, it becomes arrogance. Always consider yourself important, because one must love oneself before loving others.

If you don't like yourself, how can you make others feel sorry. If there is the most reliable person in the world, it is yourself. Besides yourself, I don't think I paid more attention to yourself.

Live your life well before giving guidance to others. Always hold your destiny in your own hands, so that you can control your own life.

3、 A person can only grasp the present moment

Life may have many possibilities, but the world is unpredictable. Only by grasping the present moment can one truly live a life.

We are not saints, so there are inevitably many things we cannot do well. But don't dwell on it, you hope to have more success in the future, it depends on what people are doing now.

Life is always moving forward without stopping, and my heart is full of hope, hoping to see a rainbow after going through storms.

(1) Time is like the rushing water of a faucet

It can be said that time is the foremost of all things in the world, always moving forward and unstoppable by anyone. It never favors anyone and never stops for anyone for a minute or a second.

Do you believe that time can change everything? We have all heard that time passes and time does not spare us, so don't wait until the big boss is sad in life. Seize the present moment well, so as not to regret it too much.

Time flows like water, gone forever, and life can only be lived in the present moment,

(2) Now is your future shadow

Looking at your current appearance, one can imagine what you will look like in the future. Although life has many uncertainties, no one can arbitrarily reject a person. As the saying goes, feng shui takes turns, with thirty years in the east and thirty years in the west.

But if there is no effort, there is no such thing as the future. The present moment is the starting point of life and also the place where dreams begin. Don't expect the future to be great, living well now can lead to a fulfilling life.

Don't worry about life, believe that the present moment is the most worth having. When one day you suddenly look back, you can still feel that moment is the most beautiful.

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