Better angry than proud

The philosopher Immanuel Kant said: that anger, is to take others' mistakes to punish themselves.

Life is created by oneself, the mood is built by oneself.

There are many things in this world that you can't change! The only thing that can change is you!

When you can't change the outside world and the status quo, the only thing you can change is yourself.

Change your mind will change the Angle of your view of the world, and when you change the Angle of view, even if you meet the world's most unlucky, the most unfortunate thing, will not become the world's most unlucky, the most unfortunate person.

Optimistic people always see the good side of life, never negative blame. They have a "lucky" mentality and take everything in stride.

There are some things when we can not solve and deal with, might as well accept the reality, don't resist those unchangeable facts, and use the time saved to do something meaningful.

To change oneself is to change the way you see the world.

Your life is the only creation of your life, and can not be erased and rebuilt, even if there is only one day to live, that day also wants to live beautifully, noble. Always remember in your heart that life is what you make it.

Life is short. Don't sweat the trifles in life. It's not worth wasting your time and energy on them.

Pleasant people also have a temper, the difference is that people can control their temper, and restrain anger. Do not lose the happy mood because of a little thing, do not because a little thing disturbs the pace of their life, not because of a little thing damage to health.

Why get angry? Chi is something that someone else breathes out and you catch in your mouth. You'll be nauseous if you swallow it. The setting sun is like gold, the moon is like silver, the happiness and happiness of life is not enough to enjoy, where there is time to angry ah?

"I'd be really mad at him!" "I'm so angry about this!" I believe I am no stranger to this emotion. The rush of work goes round and round every day, and no one can escape frustration and anger. A little anger is an anger. Anger will destroy the balance of emotions, if you keep something in your heart, over time it will inevitably damage your body, affect your work, and delay your future. Because THIS WANTS REASONABLE GROUND TO VENT A MOOD, REASONABLE dredge THE ANGER IN THE HEART, CHANGE ANGER FOR STRENGTH, MAKE ONESELF WALK OUT OF SHADOW AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, PUT INTO WORK HAPPILY.

Anger will keep a man from the truth. Anger often screws things up. When we are angry, we should go to the extreme and act in the extreme. There is no way out and no room for maneuver. Originally rational, but became no reason, originally small, the result became a big thing, even out of control, later, regret too late.

"Eighty percent of our anger is self-inflicted," says Richard Callison, an American expert on stress responses. He boiled down the prevention of agitation to this: "Please calm down! Accept that life is not fair. Nobody is perfect, and nothing ever goes according to plan."

As the saying goes: happiness shared by someone is greater happiness, pain shared by someone can alleviate the pain. Therefore, when you are a small fire in the heart, might as well pour out to the friends around, believe that they can help you, and enlighten you.

Here are some ways to get rid of anger

1) Reasonable concessions

Many angry people tend to be opinionated, unwilling to listen and respect the opinions of others, and lack sufficient self-criticism. Learning to make reasonable concessions will not only benefit the development of the situation and the resolution of the problem but will also win the goodwill of others and eventually remove the trigger for anger.

2) Adjust your attitude

As the saying goes: A prime minister's forehead can run a horse, general belly can punt. The best way to control anger is to endure, which is tolerance. Conscious patience, rational let, not retreat, not incompetent, not to give up the principle, but a strategy, a kind of wisdom, a state. The only insight into the world, clear mind, the right and wrong, contradictions have a clear understanding of the people, will be in May be provoked, do the real conscious endure, really calmly face life, work in a variety of contradictions and challenges.

Disraeli, a famous British writer, said: "Life is short for those who are angry about small things."

Can't change others, change yourself; If you can't change things, change your attitude towards them. Otherwise, you belong to the people who have a hard time with yourself, you belong to the people who are not smart.

The mountain does not come, I will go. Enough to make Lao Tze complain all day about "bad fate, injustice, talent."

For things to change, you must first change yourself. Only changing yourself, will eventually change others. Only by changing yourself first can you finally change the world that belongs to you. Mountain, if not come, then let us pass.

The ability to adapt to the changes in the external environment is better than the wishful thinking of the voice of the self waiting for the echo. That's a lot wiser.

A philosopher said: if you can't be a road, then be a road; If you can't be the sun, be a star.

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