6 Easy Steps to Feeling Better When You're Sad
If you're having a particularly bad day, reaching out to friends and family can be helpful, but sometimes it's just as important to take care of yourself so that you can get through the rest of your day with some hope for tomorrow.

I know what you're thinking. You're sitting at your desk and you can't stop thinking about that argument you had with your spouse, or how much work there still is left to do on that report for tomorrow's deadline. The problem is that when we're sad or upset, it can be hard to find the silver lining in these situations - but there are things we can do to cheer ourselves up! Here are seven tips for getting through your next "down" period:
Give yourself the time you need.
The first thing you need to understand is that there is no right or wrong way of feeling sad. You might have tried your best to hide it, but it's still there and it needs time to heal.
Instead of trying to force yourself into a mood, give yourself the space and time you need. This can be hard if you've never experienced sadness before, but if someone close has recently died then they will know how painful this can be - and they'll also know that sometimes we just need some quiet space in order for our feelings not only come out but also go somewhere else on their own accord (like through writing).
It would probably help if I told people what happened at the end of my story: How I went home feeling depressed after having spent all afternoon talking with friends about how much fun our trip was going to be; how I got ready for bed early because I knew tomorrow would bring us closer together than ever before; how everything seemed perfect until suddenly one day everything changed completely without warning!
Think about what you would tell a close friend.
- Think about what you would tell a close friend in the same situation.
- Think about what you would do if you were in their shoes.
- The power of perspective: take a step back and look at the big picture, or ask yourself if this is really something to be sad about, or if there are other things in your life that should be more important than worrying about one thing at a time - express yourself through creativity! Journaling is great for getting thoughts out and expressing emotions; it's also another great way to get over an upset quickly by focusing on something else entirely.
Find a more positive perspective.
You may be thinking, "I can't do that! I don't want to be happy anymore!" But if you start by looking at things from a different angle, it may help. Try focusing on what is good in your life (like the fact that you had lunch with your best friend today) instead of focusing on all the bad things which are happening around you (such as having no money for food).
- Look at the bright side of things.
When we think about ourselves or others, we tend to focus on what makes them unhappy and unhappy thoughts make us feel worse than we already do - so try looking for bright spots along the way instead! You might find something interesting about someone who was once bitter toward life but now appears much happier than before; maybe even happier than when they were younger!
Identify what is in your control, and take action on that.
The first step to feeling better is identifying what you can control.
You may have tried and failed to make changes before, but this time, try focusing on being proactive instead of reactive:
- Identify your own personal triggers that lead to sadness. For example, if it's a certain time of day or season (e.g., winter), then maybe that's when you fall into a depressed state most often? Or maybe there are certain things in your life that trigger sadness for no apparent reason (e.g., having just moved). These are all factors worth considering as we move forward with our goal here!
Get active.
When you're sad, it's easy to want to stay in bed and not do anything. But remember: the world is still here, and you can still make a difference. Even if it's just getting out of the house and doing something fun with friends or family members who care about you, that will help your mood significantly!
Express yourself through creativity or journaling.
- Try a new hobby. If you're feeling down, try doing something creative instead of just sitting around and watching TV. Do some painting, knitting, or drawing in your journal - you could even take up origami! It's fun to experiment with new activities when you're feeling down because it helps keep your mind busy and prevents boredom from setting in.
- Try a different sport or activity that interests you: If running isn't working out (or if running feels like too much work), then consider trying something else like yoga or dancing instead! The act of moving around will also help get blood flowing throughout your body; this can help boost energy levels and make us feel better mentally as well as physically (and there's no need for expensive membership fees here). When choosing which type of exercise would be best suited for our moods at any given moment, try not going too far outside our comfort zone but rather sticking within reason by finding something close enough whether it's just around the block from home (wherever that may be), maybe even only 30 minutes away from where we live so long as there aren't any major roadblocks involved like traffic jams during rush hour hours etcetera…
You're not alone - almost everybody has these kinds of days, but there are things you can do to cheer yourself up.
Give yourself the time you need. When we feel sad or depressed, it's often because we haven't had enough sleep or had a stressful day at work or school. Give yourself some time for yourself before taking on other responsibilities by turning off your phone and closing down your computer until tomorrow morning (or later).
Think about what you would tell a close friend who was going through something similar - maybe they'd be able to find comfort in hearing how much their friends care about them! Or think about something happier: if someone asked me how my day went and I said "it sucked," they might assume that means I didn't have any fun activities planned out ahead of time; however, if I said "my day was filled with happiness," then maybe they'd understand that while the entire thing wasn't perfect (like most days), there were still moments where everything came out right after all!
Conclusion
We hope these suggestions help you feel better when you're sad. If you're having a particularly bad day, reaching out to friends and family can be helpful, but sometimes it's just as important to take care of yourself so that you can get through the rest of your day with some hope for tomorrow.
About the Creator
Courtanae Heslop
Courtanae Heslop is a multi-genre writer and business owner.


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