back to me

could i ask you..

where you now..

my soul miss you

i will travel all the world

searching about you

if i dont find you

i will kill myself in the ocean

cause the blood of reaching to all the places searching about you

Do you miss your girlfriend so much that you can hardly think straight? Being apart is hard and we totally get that! Luckily, there are lots of things you can do to start feeling better now. In this article, we'll share a few sweet ideas that can help you feel closer to your girlfriend and talk about ways you can use healthy distractions to get your mind off things. If you're ready to start feeling better, read on!

Simply sharing how you feel can help you feel better. If you’re missing your girl and it’s really weighing on you, reach out and tell her! She’ll love getting a random text about how much you miss her; after all, she misses you, too![1] You can comfort each other. Sometimes, that’s all you need to feel better.[2] You might text her something like:

I can’t stop thinking about you! 💋 So excited to see you again.

I wish you were here. I miss everything about you so much! 😘

Nothing feels the same when you’re away ❤️

I miss you like crazy! How do we fix that? 🤔

Just heard our song 🎶💕 it made me think of you.

I miss your beautiful face. 😍 When will I see you again?

She'll love getting a cute selfie from you out of the blue. Send her a picture of you smiling and add "I miss you" to the image before you send it to her. If you go the sexy route, don't text her when you know she's at work or school; you never know who might be standing close enough to see your pic!

If you've never sent her a sexy selfie or nude before, it's a good idea to talk about it first and make sure she's cool with it.

When you can hear her voice, she won’t seem so far away. At the end of the day, bottling up your emotions up isn't good for you. Chances are, your girlfriend misses you just as much as you miss her, so a quick call will probably boost her mood, too. It's normal to feel a little lonely without her, but making that connection reminds you that you aren’t truly alone.[4] You might say something like:

”Hey Jill! I know we usually chat on Tuesday nights, but I couldn’t wait. I really just needed to hear your voice. I miss you so much."

”Hey you! It’s a bit late for a phone call, I know, but I miss you so much.”

”I miss you, Becca! Like, on a “missing you” scale of 1 to 10, I’m registering a solid 234 tonight.”

Just because she’s far away doesn’t mean you can’t hang out “together.” Even if you’re communicating regularly by phone and text, nothing beats seeing your girlfriend’s face on video. Spice things up by trying new date activities “together” like having lunch, cooking dinner, playing a game, or watching a movie. If you can’t be physically with your girl, this is the next best thing![6]

If you’re both comfortable with it, try something fun and racy like playing strip poker.

Healthy distractions are a great way to get your mind off things. Think about hobbies you truly enjoy but haven’t done in a while. For example, if you love playing guitar but haven’t picked up the instrument in years, why not get back into it? It will be fulfilling to reignite that passion and you’ll be able to share your experiences with your girlfriend (who knows, maybe you can even write her a special song!)[7] For example, you can try:

Joining a local sports group or club

Hiking or rock climbing

Painting, drawing, or photography

Starting a blog to review sci-fi films

Interactive video games (Fortnite, Final Fantasy, etc.)