5 things you shouldn’t do as a fat girl in a relationship ❤️

Hi pretty😍 here are a few things you shouldn’t do if you’re chubby and in a relationship. Now it doesn’t matter if he loves you so much or not, i understand that 70% of people in relationships are only in it because they don’t wanna be lonely not because they’re actually in love. So whichever situation you find yourself wether you’re actually in love or just there to pass time, there a few things you shouldn’t do as a fat girl. Here’s 1. Never ever ever let him know you are insecured. Listen we all have our insecurities both chubby and skinny people it’s just that it’s more obvious with chubby people considering the standards of beauty today. I know at some point you might feel like ohhh this person is your boyfriend and maybe you should share your insecurities with him NEVER I repeat never ever do that because you’re only giving him reasons to think you’re actually not ittt you get?? He might even see you as flawless but because you are insecured and you let him know, he’ll start seeing those things you’re insecured about.

Example story: A friend of mine, a really chubby girl let her insecurities made her relationship ugly. At first he was literally obsessing over her but then her insecurities steps in she start wearing really tight tummy raps to cover her tummy, starts wearing really big shirts trying to hide her stomach because she was insecured about it.now this her boyfriend approached her the first time on the day she wore a crop top and shorts, he thought she was Hot even with her tummy hanging out He didn’t think anything was wrong with it or with her but she spoilt it. When they got together after sometime she let her insecurities seen, always talking about how she wants to loose tummy fat, how she needs to lose weight, starts wearing big clothes, all this in his presence, in his face. She started pointing out why she’s not good enough and he started noticing it. Now you see where she went wrong? Sis he saw those arms, he saw those thighs, he knows about that stomach he sees them as beautiful don’t let him think otherwise. Carry yourself with so much confidence around him so much pride and poise and if you need to talk to anyone about your insecurities then Talk to Your mom, Dad siblings not your Man please 🙏🏾

Instead of feeling insecured and covering your body and feeling uncomfortable in your skin, Embrace your body, feel comfortable, confident, dress up show that body. I know 80% of chubby girls are not proud of their looks but I tell you this the day you feel less confident is the day you should get up dress up to show off those insecurities and act like you’re the only one in the world, like no one’s seeing you, like you’re that girl, the ittt girl, like you’re the prize like you’re the most beautiful person in the room and I want you to also be this way when you’re with your man because you’re happy, smiling no one notices those things you call flaws they just enjoy with you. It’s easier to spot someone’s flaw when they’re Timid. Just be healthy that’s all

So this is No1 of the 5 things you shouldn’t do as a chubby girl in a relationship. There’s 4 to go!!

I Hope this was worth reading! I also want contributions 🥰feel free to comment what you think about this piece. Stay tuned for the next episode 🥰 love you bye