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Walking With Love And Grief.

Thoughts I wanted to get out.

By April Kirby.Published 9 months ago 2 min read
Walking With Love And Grief.
Photo by Marco Bianchetti on Unsplash

I always thought love and grief couldn’t co-exist, but in the two years I’ve spent navigating them, I’ve learned they aren’t separate—they are one.

Because we love, we grieve.

We grieve because we love.

It doesn’t matter if they’re human or animal, the emotions exist in the same space.

Love is the first to show itself, but grief always waits in the shadows, ready to step forward when the time is right.

Grief doesn’t push love away. It doesn’t demand love’s departure. Instead, it takes love’s hand, and together they learn to exist within us.

We must learn how to live with them, side by side—love and grief, tangled together in quiet conflict.

One will try to outshine the other, and we will desperately want love to be louder than grief.

We fear that grief will silence love, so we keep it hidden, quietly tucked away.

But living with both means allowing them to coexist, to speak when they need to, to be felt in all their forms.

Being human is to feel all the emotions we don’t want to feel. Society tells us to silence grief, to keep love in quiet corners of our hearts.

But I believe that’s wrong. Grief is meant to be shared, and love is meant to be loud.

We need both—to teach each other how to live with loss, to show how to embrace love even when it hurts.

We must let both rise to the surface, unapologetic, because these two emotions will shape us, more than any others.

Let your love be loud and proud.

Let your grief echo just as loudly.

In the end, we’re all just trying to make our way through this wild, unpredictable world.

And in this journey, we’re not meant to walk alone.

So share your grief, share your love, and allow others to help you when you stumble.

There will be people—near and far—who will help you stand tall again.

Love and grief will always find their way to your path, no matter how you try to change direction.

You will lose your way, you will fall, but you will rise.

Hand in hand with love and grief, you will keep moving forward.

Let yourself be weak, let yourself cry, let yourself feel.

Because in the end, your love will become your strength.

And grief, too, will become part of your resilience.

Love and grief will become your greatest possessions.

The love you feel will inspire you to keep going.

The love they left with you will help you when you want to give up.

And grief, grief will remind you that they were once here, that they were real.

Though they may take new forms, they will never truly leave you.

FamilyFree VerseGratitudeheartbreaklove poemsMental HealthOdeProsesad poetry

About the Creator

April Kirby.

I'm April, a writer from a small town who found purpose in poetry. Grief—both human and canine—is my focus. I write to honor love, loss, and healing.

My books are available below. <33

Growing With Grief.

Walking With Grief.

Bridging The Gap.

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