They used to tell me I was a lesbian and it was supposed to be an insult
Poem
By Emilia JaarPublished 5 years ago • 1 min read

Do you remember
when classmates told you
I was a lesbian?
They said that
because they never saw me
with a guy in the street
Ridiculous!
They were bored
And that was supposed to be
an insult
At 15 I enjoyed more
saying no to boys
who wanted to flirt
than embracing them
There's pleasure in rejection
Can we please
talk about it?
Can we talk about people
who marry at 22?
Is it self-destruction?
Is it a sense of responsability
created by capitalism?
Is it a religious approach to life?
Did we come here
to suffer?
Do what you gotta do!
Now I wish
I was a lesbian
Just for poetic justice
But I'm not...




Comments (2)
Emilia, your poem resonates deeply with the struggles and societal expectations that many face. The vivid recollection of classmates making assumptions about your sexuality reflects the narrow mindset prevailing in our society. Your defiance against conforming to traditional norms and finding pleasure in rejection at a young age is both powerful and liberating. The questions you pose about early marriages and the potential influences like capitalism and religion add layers of complexity to the narrative. The desire for poetic justice and the final acknowledgment of your true self create a poignant and relatable conclusion. Thank you for sharing this raw and thought-provoking piece that encourages important conversations about societal norms and personal identity. Looking forward to more of your insightful work!
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