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They used to tell me I was a lesbian and it was supposed to be an insult

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By Emilia JaarPublished 5 years ago 1 min read

Do you remember

when classmates told you

I was a lesbian?

They said that

because they never saw me

with a guy in the street

Ridiculous!

They were bored

And that was supposed to be

an insult

At 15 I enjoyed more

saying no to boys

who wanted to flirt

than embracing them

There's pleasure in rejection

Can we please

talk about it?

Can we talk about people

who marry at 22?

Is it self-destruction?

Is it a sense of responsability

created by capitalism?

Is it a religious approach to life?

Did we come here

to suffer?

Do what you gotta do!

Now I wish

I was a lesbian

Just for poetic justice

But I'm not...

slam poetry

About the Creator

Emilia Jaar

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  • Andy Kru2 years ago

    Emilia, your poem resonates deeply with the struggles and societal expectations that many face. The vivid recollection of classmates making assumptions about your sexuality reflects the narrow mindset prevailing in our society. Your defiance against conforming to traditional norms and finding pleasure in rejection at a young age is both powerful and liberating. The questions you pose about early marriages and the potential influences like capitalism and religion add layers of complexity to the narrative. The desire for poetic justice and the final acknowledgment of your true self create a poignant and relatable conclusion. Thank you for sharing this raw and thought-provoking piece that encourages important conversations about societal norms and personal identity. Looking forward to more of your insightful work!

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