The Waves of Grief

I wish I hadn't rushed our time together as often

I wish I hadn't let our conversations become routine

I wish I had asked more questions; like what you do you love, what are you afraid of, what's your fondest memory?

I know you wouldn't want me to live a life of regret

And I'm learning that I cannot combat waves of grief with wishing the feelings would just go away

I give myself grace by asking myself what you have taught me:

Life is temporary, spend it being present

Open up and be connected with others

It's okay to need "someone with skin on"

I'm grateful for being here right now

Finally, live intentionally

Thank you for being my teacher