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Releasing the Past, Embracing the Self

Navigating the Endings and Beginnings of Connection

By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingPublished 10 months ago 1 min read
Top Story - March 2025
Releasing the Past, Embracing the Self
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The end of one relationship is just the beginning of another. The wrong person will eventually be missed, and the right person will eventually be met.

When any relationship comes to an end, don't worry about who is right or wrong; it was mutual consent at the beginning, and when it ends, neither of you owes the other anything.

Meeting in the crowd and returning to the crowd, this in itself is a result of a beginning and an end.

No matter what the reason is, and no matter who is responsible, try not to think too much about it and don't be unwilling, because it doesn't matter anymore.

You know, it doesn’t matter anymore, so what’s the point? Don't give blessings or say sorry. It's hard to have any intersection, whether it's good or not, so why pretend?

In fact, don’t think about getting back together, and don’t feel like you can’t live without suffering because of losing someone; some grudges will always exist, and some things just have to be let go.

People who cannot spend the rest of their lives together cannot be forced to stay together after all. Instead of carefully maintaining the relationship, it is better to let each other go.

In fact, living alone for a long time is not that hard. At least you don’t have to worry about random thoughts, at least you don’t have to worry about missing out, at least you don’t have to care too much or wait for a reply. Even your emotions can be mostly stable. You’re just a little lonely, but this is the norm.

People must always learn to get along with themselves, and then do what they should do; the world will not stop because of the absence of anyone, we must always learn to cherish ourselves.

So, forget it, let the past be the past, that’s it! Anyway, you will still meet someone you like, and it will depend on you whether you are worthy of him/her or not.

Thank you for reading!

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Emily Chan - Life and love sharing

Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing

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  • Mahnoor Ali10 months ago

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  • Addison Alder10 months ago

    These are wonderful observations that all of us should take to heart ❤️ thank you for sharing! 🙏🙏🙏

  • Samson Murad10 months ago

    very awesome work: I am very inspired by your work

  • Aku Kapfo10 months ago

    So true. I'm sure there is some who really needs this now. I wish I was able to read this wonderful piece then. I can relate to it in an almost religious level. It is an amazing work. Congratulations on top story! It's so well deserved!

  • Congrats on Top Story! Amazing work and well deserved. 🎉🎈

  • Radhiya Furat10 months ago

    A must-read for anyone navigating change and new beginnings.

  • Susan Fourtané 10 months ago

    Sometimes relationships are a vehicle to teach us something about us and our choices. Unfortunately, it takes time to see it this way.

  • Promise Osas10 months ago

    Wow, you're absolutely right, one door close another one opens.

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  • Jodi vailes10 months ago

    People come in your life to teach you something sometimes we don’t know what they’re teaching it’s years before we get the message

  • angela hepworth10 months ago

    Letting go is so hard, but so necessary. Beautiful work, Emily!

  • Very good work, congrats 👏

  • Ann ☕️10 months ago

    I totally agree! People come and go, what matters is appreciating their presence while they still create memories with us. What happens tomorrow is out of our hands. What transpires now is what we can cherish. Great story, Emily~

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