Read oneself, please oneself and surpass oneself

Finally, at the age of over thirty, in an instant, I didn't care about anyone's opinions and learned how to love myself. I also knew exactly what I wanted. It was so amazing. In just that split second, I understood. I love myself so much.

When others don't need you, you should learn to withdraw your enthusiasm and exit politely. You can cry under the covers or drink until you throw up, but you mustn't pick up your phone to send inappropriate messages or make inappropriate calls. You should understand that what you can't get should be stopped in time. Cutting your losses in time is a sign of maturity. If you knock on a door that you don't want to open again, you are being impolite.

Once you understand, you must strive to keep the initiative in your own hands. When it comes to emotions, you also need to have the ability and courage to pause at any time. If you are constantly struggling with internal strife right now, in fact, just let your emotions and everything go along. All these feelings and emotions will eventually "unblock" you one day, allowing everything to develop gradually as it pleases.

Return yourself to yourself, return others to others, let the flowers be flowers, let the trees be trees. From now on, we will never meet again on this journey of mountains and rivers. May we not see each other, owe each other, or miss each other in the next life. Those who have a heart will be burdened, while those who don't will be indifferent. The heart comes from one's own will, and after the event, there will be no regrets. We won't talk about debts and won't let down the encounter.