Miss, look up to the beauty

A male friend told me one day that he finally found out after his divorce that the toilet had to be washed often; It turns out that taking care of a pair of children takes so much effort and loses freedom! I asked him, "how is your ex-wife now?"

"After she left me, she married a foreigner and lived happily," he said I then asked, "hasn't she come back to see the children?" "No," he said calmly

"Doesn't she love children? She gave birth to her own!" I don't understand. The friend began to drink and told me all about his relationship with his ex-wife. The wife is a good woman. Although she likes to play before marriage, she changes her former life and lives a very home life after marriage.

After the birth of his first child, he often went out early and returned late, saying it was for business, communication and entertainment. The wife is considerate of the hard work of men working outside and has no complaints. When the second child was born, he often came home late and even stayed out overnight. His wife wanted him to spend more time with her and her children, and he always went his own way under the pretext of his career. Her mother-in-law is a conservative woman. She always thinks that all her son's problems are due to her wife's bad performance, so she has a very cold attitude towards her wife. After eight years of marriage, his wife finally gave him an ultimatum. His wife said to him, "you've been married for eight years. What have you done for this family? What have you done for me?" He said drunkenly, "I work hard to make money for you every day and work hard for life. Isn't that enough?" The wife said, "do you think that's enough? Is that all a woman wants?" He said discontentedly, "what else do you want? Let you have no worries about food, clothing and life. Stay at home every day and do whatever you want! How many women are better off than you?" The wife said sadly, "over the years of marriage, you can't see my pay and my pain. You don't know why your children suddenly grow up and become sensible. You regard everything as so natural." He said discontentedly: "I didn't pay? Didn't take care of you? Who gave you the money to spend? The children will grow up. Don't I have to work hard to raise them!"

The wife was silent. She knew it was time to wake up. Finally, she proposed to divorce unconditionally. She didn't want children or money. She just wanted to leave the man who wasted her life and made her unhappy.

Here's the story. My male friend bowed his head and stopped talking. I think he drank too much and patted him on the back

"You know what? Since the divorce, I've always wanted to find someone who can replace his mother for my children and myself. But what I like, my children don't like."

I asked him, "do you want what the child doesn't like at first sight?" He nodded.

He began to say to himself: "I only now know that the original children will not grow up by themselves, and my mother is actually very unreasonable; the original family affairs are so heavy that I can't go anywhere with two children. There is a reason why the toilet will be so clean." He began to cry

I was lost in thought. I know that some men will never learn to love a woman, and some men need a woman just because they lack a nanny, a servant, a person who can talk with each other when they are lonely, or a tool to carry on the family line.

My male friend couldn't believe that the toilet needed cleaning. Later, when he squatted in the toilet to wash the toilet, he found that a woman had been so important to him!

In fact, we should learn to appreciate others in life, which is equivalent to giving people a kind of encouragement. When a man says to you with appreciation: you are so charming! I think most women will be in full bloom. People need to be appreciated, especially after marriage. They should always appreciate her and make her full of confidence and happiness in life, so as to reduce a lot of complaints and nagging. And a man also needs to be encouraged with appreciation, so as to arouse men's motivation and sense of responsibility. It's the unfortunate people who despise each other that eventually lead to their disdain for each other. A happy marriage is a knowledge full of appreciation, but you and I are often destroyed by the trivia of life, no longer care about each other's feelings, abuse each other with violence or indifference, and make the marriage go further and further.

Spiritual spark

Many unhappy marriages come from a kind of shackle, which is shrouded in a false responsibility. Mutual indifference and neglect lead to a certain degree of aesthetic fatigue. When you forget your appreciation and the other party can no longer attract your interest, the signal of unfortunate marriage begins to appear, and the main way to remedy this situation is to learn to find the other party's flash points, and then look at the marriage with an appreciative eye, so as to rekindle your inner passion. Appreciation is an attitude, an attitude of yearning for a better life. When you are trying to improve yourself and others treat you with an attitude of appreciation, how can you not achieve your inner satisfaction and happiness?