Living in Fate, Not Clinging

Whether male or female, never desperately seek marriage, for everything in this world follows the law of cause and effect. What is meant to be yours will eventually arrive; what is not meant for you will only deplete your energy. Believe that when a debt of kindness is owed to you, someone who cherishes you dearly will appear. Without greed, there are gifts; with heavy expectations, there are only losses. Hope for the attainable, wait for the possible, listen, observe, and go with the flow. Walk forward with composure.

Why should two people with no future meet? How do you know this encounter isn't meant to resolve regrets from a past life? Perhaps this meeting was something you desperately prayed for once before. Those destined to meet will find each other even from a thousand miles away; those not destined will remain strangers even when standing face to face.

All encounters, seemingly accidental, are in fact preordained. A single thought can bring the ends of the earth close; a single thought can make the near seem far. Everyone desires a good marriage, but few realize it is predestined. You do not need to hunt for or cling to the one meant for you. Why chase those who are not? They are merely untouchable illusions.

Meeting the wrong person will drain you, while meeting the right person will heal you. The right person will eventually reappear, while the wrong person will eventually drift away. In this life, we don't need to deliberately seek anyone out, nor do we need to force anyone to stay. The most comfortable way to exist is to treat others sincerely without clinging to them—living in fate rather than in relationships. True destiny will not drift away; those who leave were never your true path.

Do not regret what you have missed. All encounters and separations in this world are for the sake of meeting a better version of yourself and finding the person who truly prizes you. If you can’t let go of someone, simply wait. Perhaps you will find the one you are waiting for, or perhaps you will finally find the strength to let go—both are good outcomes.

Never regret giving your heart; in the end, it is the one who cannot love who loses the most. Some people, once met, are unforgettable; some feelings, once begun, are irreversible. Don't rush; there is still time. Eventually, someone will love you to the bone, cherish you as they do their own life, and yearn for you with their very soul. All the stars in the sky will reflect you, through every romance and every rain.

Thank you for reading!