Life, with positive energy, you will be happy

Writer Owen said, "The purpose of all human efforts is to harvest happiness."

However, sometimes the result of our efforts does not reap happiness.

If you want to be happy in life, you should at least have positive energy. This requires you to be kind to people around you, be grateful in life, reduce your grievances, and not boss people around so that happiness will come uninvited.

So, change your thoughts and fill your heart with love, and your world will change.

Life, with positive energy, will be happy.

01. Learn to love everyone around you

In one's life, one must cherish the people around him or her. If you do not cherish, a lot of families, friendships, and love will pass you by, bringing you full of regret.

For example, a girlfriend asked you to go for a walk together, you are tired because of work, not action, girlfriend sad, and finally left you; wife said to go on vacation with you, you always do not have time, accumulated enough disappointment, the wife no longer mentioned; gray-haired mother has been waiting for you to come home, but because you do not have time, mom sad, and finally mom is gone... ...

We do not cherish the people around us, just the heart is not enough.

This is the nature of human nature, we always think that life will always be quiet, parents will always live, loved ones will always be with us, and everything can start over ...... but life will always be caught off guard, when you are at ease, for you to bring you some surprises.

The life of a person, whether it is family, friendship, or love, is a gift from God, he will be with you in different moments of your life, help you, care about you ...... become a ladder for your progress in life. All of them are worth cherishing.

Life is too short to withstand your disappointment, cherish every rare encounter.

02. Learn to reduce resentment towards others

In life, we inevitably meet unhappy things, such as other people hurting us, or betraying us ...... so we therefore grudge, can never let go, and even have pain for the rest of their lives.

In fact, why bother? The main thing is to be happy in life, and if you can get around the emotion of complaining, you will reap the benefits of a pleasant life.

The writer Mu Xin was unjustly imprisoned three times in his life, but Mu Xin never gave up his profession, even in prison he insisted on writing articles. He never complained about others, and he did not hold grudges against people who had hurt him.

He kept writing while in prison and had a very good attitude. When he was released from prison for the third time, Mu Xin was in high spirits and neatly dressed, as if he had never been in prison. And he finished his book "Notes from Prison" in prison.

I think, when it comes to complaining about God, Mu Xin is more wronged than anyone else, more qualified than anyone else to complain. However, Mu Xin simply did not care about the scars branded on him by the years, but with strong perseverance to refute fate, and finally got his fallen leaves in golden autumn.

Life is very expensive, do not carry unnecessary pain, and do not hurt yourself to fight right or wrong. For the mistakes of others, I want to reduce resentment, but also spare myself. Because many troubles in life come from your blame, if you do not complain anymore, everything will dissipate.

Fate will sometimes joke with you, let you lose, and then give you a surprise. So, we should not be stuck at the moment, not as good, over the mountains, will be picturesque.

03. Learn to be grateful to others

In a person's life, no one is obliged to help you except your family. We must learn to be grateful to those who help us. Gratitude is not only a virtue but also the source of our good mood.

To be a grateful person is to be well-liked and to have a good life.

Roosevelt was the chief of the United States, and the most striking motto of his life was gratitude, and he said that if people learn to be grateful, they will have superhuman wisdom.

Once Roosevelt's house was burglarized, his friend wrote to comfort him immediately after hearing the news. In his letter, Roosevelt replied, "I am well now, thank God." And he wrote three reasons why he was grateful to God: first, the thief had stolen some of his things, not all of them; second, the thief had stolen my things without hurting me; third, it was he who did the thieving, not me.

For anyone, theft is an unfortunate event, yet Roosevelt was able to find three reasons to be thankful for it. The mentality of gratitude made all of America embrace Roosevelt.

People who have grateful hearts can be relieved even when unhappiness occurs. Happiness mostly comes from being content with all things, and if you learn to be grateful, life will be full of happiness back to you.

When you learn to be grateful, life will be kind to you, and happiness and joy will come uninvited.

04. Learn to give yourself relief

People will experience a lot in their lives, and will naturally face a lot of choices, there will be a lot of worries. However, science has proven that most of the worries in life do not happen, people are often worried about nothing.

In life, there is a magnetic field in your heart, and the things around you are related to you. You want happy things, happy things will happen around you. If you want sad things, sadness will happen around you. So, your life is messy, probably also your thoughts are messy.

It is not the outside world that disturbs us, but our nonsense thoughts. If you can relieve yourself of your worries, life is much happier.

In "Gone with the Wind", Scarlett has a happy rule that whenever she has a hard time, she says to herself, "Think about it tomorrow, tomorrow will be better!"

She knows how to de-stress herself, and when something unfortunate happens, Scarlett always thinks about the good. And told herself that life would be better. As a result, even amid war, she had good luck and never lacked money or help.

Although the end of the story is a bit tragic, Scarlett's whole life has been positive. She is beautiful, healthy, and positive ...... makes people believe that Scarlett's future, too, will be very good.

People life, who will meet unhappy things, know how to solve their problems. If you encounter things that cannot be changed, you should also be happy to accept them and believe that tomorrow will be better.