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Letting Go of the Need to Be Right

Finding Happiness Through Simplicity and Generosity

By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingPublished about a year ago 1 min read
Letting Go of the Need to Be Right
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I appreciate that you did not ask me about the result since not having to address that issue relieves me. The destination may not even be important, what it is at the end of the road may not be important. Previously, people just did not wish to yield.

I always had to argue about right and wrong and always wanted a result for my argument. Not now. All the phenomena related to the desire to have one’s personal and individualistic goals are completely unnecessary.

Actually, from the initial to the end, were is simplicity, straightforwardness, and decisiveness as to a lifestyle, a stand, a human connection. It would just be ideal if I could be happy in a relationship or at least, be able to fall in love. If It doesn’t work, you have to be generous anyway, though you may love it or not.

Some questions do not require to be posed because when one looks at history, everything is in it an answer. Answering a question is an answer and one needs to be careful when trying to give an answer that does not directly seek to solve the problem. Anything but that translates to not liking it. Being silent means rejecting. Being uncertain means lying.

A cold war means not being afraid of losing, so always Don’t go digging to get to the bottom of it, ask yourself first if you can handle it if the truth is what stimulates you.

And for the sake of some insignificant person, you have repulsed many people who are good to you, but still, a scoundrel is a scoundrel. It will not take you ages of tolerance, of nights in front of the computer to become the right person. Because often, with the wrong car, not only will you not get to where you want to, but the journey will not even begin.

The only positive side is that you did all of that on your own, so it does not matter whose firm you are missing. Fortunately, you are not pretentious.

Thank you for reading!

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About the Creator

Emily Chan - Life and love sharing

Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing

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  • Caitlin Charltonabout a year ago

    Thank you for posting , reading this brings me both peace and calm.

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