How Do You Shine When Others Cast Shadows?

The most charming moment of a person is when he doesn't care about anyone or anything around him. Don’t care about other people’s evaluations and views, don’t care whether you have a sense of existence, always have your own rhythm and pace, this is also the source of relaxation.

If you want to get something, you have to pay something first. If you don't temper your own character, you will always be afraid to experience things, and you will not be able to eat or sleep well if someone says something to you. You have no ability to bear it at all, and the end result is that you will be controlled. Being oversensitive is a sign of weakness.

When you are tired of the people around you, the best way to express it is not to quarrel with them, but to work harder and make more efforts to leave them. In this way, they will disappear from your life forever, as if they had already passed away.

Instead of arguing with others, it is better to compete with yourself. Arguing only exacerbates conflict, but improving ourselves can help us transcend these unhappy relationships.

We don't need to pay too much attention to those who are stuck in their own worldview due to lack of knowledge; they are difficult to change.

In life, no matter how we live, there will always be people pointing fingers at us. In this way, we can transcend unhappy relationships, break away from meaningless quarrels, and pursue higher levels of growth and progress.

People don't blame us because we are wrong, but because their accusation makes them appear more innocent. In this complex world, instead of arguing with others, it is better to compete with yourself and continue to improve yourself.

The moon is not wrong; the wrong thing is the people who cannot tolerate its shining.

Thank you for reading!