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Happiness: Self First, Then Shared

Solitude can be the key to lifelong joy

By Emily Chan - Life and love sharingPublished 9 months ago 1 min read
Happiness: Self First, Then Shared
Photo by Keegan Houser on Unsplash

A person's individual happiness serves as the starting point for genuine, everlasting satisfaction. Finding personal satisfaction leads to everlasting joy because it enables individuals to discover their life's first true contentment.

The journey toward happiness begins with self-starting, which creates a reliable directional source. The judgment test presents one basic guideline, which states that relationships failing to boost your current well-being should be avoided.

People should welcome the fact that being alone can lead to deep personal satisfaction. The internal sense of protection becomes the most reliable source of safety.

This self-sufficiency alleviates the anxieties of gain and loss in relationships. The knowledge you possess about your ability to reconnect with personal happiness gives you absolute protection.

A genuine lasting partnership develops when each partner first seeks their own happiness before the creation of a relationship.

Happy marriages form when self-satisfied people make a shared effort to develop their combined happiness state.

The union of two individuals who maintain self-happiness produces the strongest possible platform for lasting happiness.

True happiness emerges within each individual person before it can develop further.

The discovery of a life partner brings joy, while remaining unwavering in your attitude can bring peace.

Because your happiness is constant.

The source of your everlasting joy stems from your personal happiness.

Thank you for reading!

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About the Creator

Emily Chan - Life and love sharing

Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing

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