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Be a man, can not be too honest!

The moral truth of getting along with others

By Melanie M HooperPublished 3 years ago 4 min read

People live a lifetime, do not owe others, but also do not make things difficult for themselves, and do not condemn themselves.

People in this life, or learn to live for themselves, consider their feelings, get along with people, not have to cater too much to others, and not have to be too honest, nothing to compare, to the rights and interests that belong to you, we must be brave to fight, do think they honestly eat losses on the good.

The more you do not care, the more others do not take you seriously, think you are too good to talk, so more want to take advantage of you, want to squeeze you.

People, ah, often too honest, will not be blessed.

People who are too honest, always go against the grain, always do not know how to refuse others, what others say is what, they do not dare to resist, do not dare to say no, others will be more and more bullying you.

Too honest people, live the most suffocating, do not know how to fight for themselves belong to their things, and even others are bullied to their head, but also feel that this is their own life, life is this, and how can it be.

Honesty is not your life, honesty is not your fault, but your honesty should have a bottom line, there is a measure.

You should also be strong, tough, have your personality, kind to the right people, honest also to afford.

No matter who you get along with, don't be exploited, don't be squeezed, face those who will only consume you, will only take advantage of you, will only use your goodness to bully you, look down on you, if you are still too honest, is a weakness, others will bully you even more.

As the saying goes, people are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden.

Do not be too honest, the refusal should learn to refuse, do not make it difficult for themselves, do not let themselves suffer, you do not know how to refuse, do not know how to mention the conditions to others, others will be on you to get an inch, do not know how to cherish you, thank you, but recklessly from you to claim.

In life, there is a kind of honest people, their own life would have been very down, however, when some rich people in the village looked for him to work, but do not give him wages, he did not dare to say more about what.

Even when others repeatedly asked him to work, he knew that they would not pay him, but still suffered and went to work.

And when they do not do well, others will scold him, he did not retort.

Such an honest person has a bad life, often caused by their rebellious character.

I advise you not to be too honest, not that we despair of the world, is in the face of some people, your honest simply not get good treatment, it is not necessary.

So, you have to harden up, the fight is to fight, the mention or to mention, to maintain their rights and interests, is what should be done.

People live a lifetime and do not just care about others, they have to think more about themselves, do not always force themselves to obey others, generous to others, but their internal suffering is unbearable.

You are too honest, care about this, take into account that, they are not living well, but also thinking about others, who will consider your feelings and situation? Even with everything you do, others will not appreciate you, when you have things, others will not come to help, and your principles and the bottom line is broken, again and again, only to make others feel that you are the best bully.

People are too honest, they are used, know that you do not know how to refuse others, so what bad things, the first thought to find you to do, and what good things, but will not share with you, it is clear that you are bullying honest.

You are too honest, you will be treated as a transparent person, with your time, justifiably looking for you, not with your time, you will turn the other cheek, despise you, dislike you, and do not want to take care of you.

Therefore, do not be too honest, so life is destined to be very tired, very painful, and very aggrieved.

Get along with people, the prevention of people, we must learn to leave a heart to themselves, this is the way to protect ourselves, the rejection of people, we must decisively reject, do not feel embarrassed, the people who should stay away and break off, we must learn to break off, do not be too soft-hearted.

Some people are bullying soft, the more honest you are, the more they will bully you.

If you don't care about anything, everything feels indifferent, nothing is contested, nothing is wanted, and others do not think you are generous, but think you are stupid.

Those who will only make you pay will only consume you, then don't be too kind to them. Drawing a line with them and keeping a distance is the best.

Don't give your heart to people who don't deserve it, so it's sobering.

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