A Mother's Pride
knowing her daughter is a strong woman

How She Knew!
As the two of them sat on the porch chatting from the heart,
The daughter disclosed her recent life transitions and standing
To a mother who herself, had walked through them in life, as well.
At the age that required both body and soul to be pulled unfairly
From one generation above to another below her, the younger felt so torn.
Both needed her presence. One with ailing health, the other pregnant
With a first child, afraid and lonely, in need of her mother's wisdom.
And to top it off, she faced personal challenges within her own marriage.
The daughter seemed to be the caretaker of them all and had little left for
Herself... Her future fraught with uncertainty and inevitable, hard changes.
With resolve, she sat up boldly in her lawn chair and spoke directly to the
Universe and all willing to listen: "It may be ratchet, but I love my life!"
It was at that moment that her own mother knew that her daughter was
Going to make it through this stormy season. Her heart swelled with pride.
Before her was one strong, determined, and pure hearted, strong woman!
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Definition:
Ratchet (slang)
Ratchet is a slang term in American hip hop culture that, in its original sense, was a derogatory term used to refer to an uncouth woman, and may be a Louisianan dialect form of the word "wretched". Wikipedia
About the Creator
Shirley Belk
Mother, Nana, Sister, Cousin, & Aunt who recently retired. RN (Nursing Instructor) who loves to write stories to heal herself and reflect on all the silver linings she has been blessed with :)



Comments (8)
Great resolve… never heard the word used in that way.
What a lovely reflection on the strong woman your daughter has become! Wonderfully done, Shirley!
Wretched and ratchet, how did I not make the connection. Your poem was lovely!
Love this, Shirley <3
This made me cry!! I absolutely adore this ♥️♥️♥️
Great job I love this ❤️❤️❤️
I didn’t know the precise origin of that word—fascinating stuff! Great work, Shirley!
Fabulous work Shirley! Very empowering! 🌸