What Is Love

We all have our definition of what we so called love ,some may say love is the act of caring and giving to someone else or its about having someone best interest at heart and wellbeing as a priority in life ,yeah that may all be true but to truly love is a selfless act when I mean selfless it means when you are willing to love them even if they don’t love you back or treat you the way that other people do and in that reason we should be consciously aware that you should be willing to set your feelings aside and not let it break you because love is something we give freely not selfishly.

As I say this with love some people may take this to heart but love shouldn’t be justified or feeling like you have to fight to get what you need ,it should be the other away around why can’t no one fight for us , us women who actually care for love and care for another ones wellbeing and ready to risk it all just to have a foundation of a family , a nurturing balance, affection , conversation, and honesty and openness also knowing that you are there light and future that will forever grow old .

That old love is built on communication , reassurance , trust , love ,balance ,and peace, with that it comes with years of growing and maturing , and it don’t happen overnight but in the meantime men should value their women and the time they have with them because time is short and it's wasted , why not waste that time into growing further beyond we know to what we so call love .

Love is not only a journey but a commitment to each other , a sense of respect and freedom which one shall have when they find the one , that's the thing there are millions of people in the world, just to find that one but they do say it comes when you least don't find it but consciousnessly i think ,am i ready to push forward for another committed relationship that might end on good or bad terms , not knowing the outcome of the situation ,and i hate to be like this but as a female/ women we all been through our own share of pain throughout the long route and its tiring , overbearing , selfish , and most of all childish and some male tendencies don't even get to process how we feel or they can never endure that pain they put on us because as a subject to females we can say we wouldn't hurt the person we love or someone that makes them feel safe , a safe place ,someone who makes them feel at home ,comfortable , why ever try to be foolish enough to break that , because it takes time to grow into letting one's guard down .

Relationships is hard but it can also be very easy ,to make it pretty simple it's really about communication and reassurance ,because trust we all need reassurance because some tend to overthink , and i myself overthink so i know, and its also a good and bad thing because when one person over thinks they think they might be right or wrong but they don't know for sure and that's were the communication comes in and reassurance to their spouse and communicate their feelings ,especially men because Men have a hard time opening up due to females un-lacking trust or what they need and its very much both ways because females hurt male and male hurt females, its a cycle that we have to break in this generation because not all genders are like that and its like everyone been hurt so they just hold on to that and greedily do to others that they know its not right but hey ",thats how life goes why not ", and that statement is what bothers me into today society , not caring , not having self love and respect for yourself , your spouse , and definitely not the mother or father that raise men/women and some even grow up with or without them but have some form of guardian in their presence and some don't even have that home training to know from right and wrong cause trust me we all as kids been through that :parents divorcing , or not having a dad in their life and so on and this is generational passings ,some things need to change and stop for the better because if we don't end the cycle now no one will, and there will be no more love out there to give .