Walk with good people, you will become good yourself

With others together more, naturally will be tainted with each other's certain habits:

People around you get up early every day to study, over time, you will also become accustomed to getting up early, embarrassed to sleep every day again.

People around you stay up late every day, over time, you will also become accustomed to staying up late, only a few hours of sleep every day.

Whether good or bad, together for a long time, more or less will affect each other.

How do you want to go in the future is your own choice, the future peers are also your own choice, things gather by class, people are divided by group, whether you are finally excellent, look with your peers on it.

1、Who you want to be, make friends with who

Although interpersonal communication can not be pregnant with purpose, those who want to be surrounded by friends are people who can give themselves positive guidance.

The subtle influence is silent, unconsciously changing you.

In ancient times, "Meng's mother moved three times" and went to great lengths to find a place suitable for her children to study so that her children could find a good learning environment, grow with good people, promote each other and achieve a better self.

In modern society, how many parents are not so, obviously children are still in elementary school, but to children can enter the famous school learning, has done a series of planning; they have a house, but to children can learn better, do not hesitate to spend a lot of money to rent a house near the school ......

Whether it's learning, or otherwise, a good learning environment will affect the road ahead.

Parents work so hard to plan everything for their children, buying schoolhouses, taking training courses, examining famous schools ...... everything, but for their children's future road can be easier to walk.

The parents created a good environment for their children to grow together with good people than the ordinary people who are alone to figure out.

The "school bully dormitory" that is so popular on the internet, not everyone is a school bully at first, but some people are both good and hardworking, so the next person is embarrassed to continue to be lazy and can't help but follow along with the efforts to support each other, encourage each other, make progress together, and become a better person together.

Very often, a person's excellence relies not only on their self-discipline but also on the subtle influence of those around them.

2, close to the people who appreciate you, away from denial and suppression

A person is good, onlookers' opinions are only for reference, not to believe in all.

You should know that the only person who knows you best in this world is yourself.

If you can't even see yourself, how can onlookers see you? They see more, but also only a one-sided you. Sometimes, they also bring subjective assumptions, which are not objective, and how to take them seriously.

If a person appreciates you, then what he sees in his eyes is more of your good points.

On the contrary, if a person constantly denies you, then you are no longer good enough to get his appreciation.

Instead of letting yourself become inferior and negative under constant negativity, it is better to get closer to those who appreciate you, find your own merits from them, and strive hard under their encouragement to make yourself better.

A while ago the hit TV series "Teenage 2", the boss of the self-publishing company is a strong woman, workability is very strong, at a young age was a big company speaker, but no one expected that behind her is a person suffering from domestic violence.

From the beginning of college, her then-boyfriend, and later her husband began to exert pressure on her in word and deed, each time the apology afterward, seemingly sincere, but is only a "means", step by step to lead her to accept "this man is only because he loves himself too much, so he can not help but beat himself The idea of "the man who loves you so much that you can't help but hit yourself".

The company's newest product is a new product that will be available in the marketplace.

In denial and suppression, she still seems to be herself but has long fallen into the abyss, becoming a puppet.

This is why it is important to live close to people who appreciate you and stay away from denial and suppression to live a wonderful life of your own.

You think what he said was caring for you, but in fact, it was not suppressing you.

If you are feeling bad about yourself, you should be brave enough to say "no" to each other.