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The habits of the winners

By Dr JEREMIE TCHINDEBE

By JEREMIE TCHINDEBEPublished 8 months ago 5 min read

Success, whether personal, professional or spiritual, is never the result of chance. It results from a series of habits firmly rooted in discipline, perseverance and faith. These habits are not born overnight, but are built in regularity, repeated efforts and alignment with deep values. Through the examination of biblical principles, scientific studies and teachings from personal development, this article highlights the ten habits that distinguish the winners.

1. Proactivity: taking the initiative

Being proactive means taking control of your life. Rather than reacting passively to circumstances, the winners choose their response and act responsibly. Stephen R. Covey, in his famous book The 7 habits of highly effective people, affirms that proactivity is the cornerstone of any personal transformation. The proactive does not say ""I can't do anything about it", but rather: "What can I do? »

On the spiritual level, the Bible encourages this voluntary and courageous attitude. In Joshua 1 :9, God declares to Joshua : "Did I not give you this command : Strengthen yourself and take courage ? Do not be afraid or worry, for the LORD your God is with you in all that you undertake. »

It is an invitation to get out of boredom, to move forward despite obstacles, with the certainty of the divine presence.

2. A clear vision : knowing where we are going

The winners know where they are going. They have a clear vision of their objectives, which allows them to direct their efforts with precision. Without vision, the efforts dissipate in confusion.

Proverbs 29 :18 says : "When there is no vision, the people are unrestrained; but happy is he who keeps the law. »

The vision acts as a compass, guiding choices and priorities. Jesus himself affirmed in Luke 4 :43 that he was to "proclaim the good news of the kingdom of God", showing that he knew and pursued his mission.

Having a personal or family, professional or ministerial vision makes it possible to give meaning to life and avoid distractions.

3. Discipline : doing what is necessary

Discipline is the silent engine of success. She pushes to act even when motivation weakens. The winners do not depend on their emotions to decide their actions ; they are based on principles and commitments.

Psychological studies confirm that self-control is one of the best predictors of long-term success. It makes it possible to postpone the gratifications and to build with constancy.

On the biblical level, 1 Corinthians 9 :27 expresses this rigor well : "But I treat my body harshly and I keep it subjugated, for fear of being disqualified myself. »

Paul emphasizes here the importance of personal discipline to remain faithful to his mission.

4. Resilience: getting back up after failures

Failing is not the opposite of succeeding, it is a step towards success. Resilience is the ability to bounce back, to learn from your falls to come back stronger. No great winner has gone through life without setbacks.

Paul, in Philippians 3 :13-14, states : "Forgetting what is behind and carrying myself towards what is ahead, I run towards the goal... »

He recognizes his past, but chooses not to stay there. Spiritual resilience is based on the hope that God renews all things (Lamentations 3 :22-23).

5. Continuous learning: staying curious

The winners are permanent apprentices. They know that excellence is a process, not an event. They read, listen, ask questions and seek to constantly improve.

Proverbs 1:5 encourage this posture : "Let the wise man listen, and he will increase his knowledge. »

In today's world, access to information is almost unlimited. Those who choose to nurture their intelligence and their faith gain a considerable advantage. Even Jesus, at the age of twelve, was found in the temple ""sitting in the midst of the doctors, listening to them and asking them questions" (Luke 2 :46).

6. Time management : prioritize the essentials

Time is one of the most precious resources. Every day offers 24 hours to everyone, but what we do with it makes all the difference. The winners know how to identify priorities and avoid time thieves.

Stephen Covey talks about putting the first things first. This implies distinguishing the urgent from the important, and investing in what bears fruit.

Jesus, despite the crowd, took time apart to pray (Mark 1 :35). He knew that his public effectiveness depended on his private connection with the Father. Managing your time also means managing your energy and your commitments.

7. Faith : believing in yourself and in something greater

Faith is the fuel of great exploits. It gives the strength to start, to continue, and to hope. The Christian faith is not based on emptiness, but on the faithful promise of God.

Hebrews 11 :1 states : "Now faith is a firm assurance of the things that we hope for, a demonstration of those that we do not see. »

The victors believe in their ability, in their calling, and above all in the power of God through them. Moses, Gideon, Esther - all of them performed feats by faith, exceeding their personal limits.

8. Integrity: staying true to your values

Integrity is the backbone of sustainable success. It is the ability to remain in law, faithful to one's convictions, even when no one is looking. The winners integrate their values into every decision, refusing the compromises that lead to corruption.

Proverbs 10 :9 affirm : "He who walks in integrity walks in safety. »

Joseph, in Egypt, refused adultery despite the opportunity and pressure, because he feared God more than man (Genesis 39). Integrity dresses trust, inner peace and divine favor.

9. Gratitude : appreciating how far we've come

Gratitude transforms our perspective. It pushes us to recognize the progress, no matter how small, and to celebrate the blessings received. The winners are aware that each step is a grace.

Paul exhorts in 1 Thessalonians 5 :18 : "Give thanks to each other in all things. »

Even in the trial, gratitude opens the door to joy and resilience. It removes the complaint, strengthens the faith, and dresses peace. King David regularly wrote messages of gratitude, thus nourishing his inner strength.

10. Service : helping others succeed

Finally, true winners don't just succeed for themselves. They invest in others, share their knowledge, encourage and support. They know that greatness is also measured by the impact we have on others.

Paul wrote in Galatians 5 :13 : « For love's sake, serve one another. »

Serving is not a weakness, but a strength. Jesus, the greatest of the conquerors, made himself a servant, washing the feet of his disciples (John 13 :14-15). By serving, we inspire, we build, and we leave a legacy.

Conclusion : Building a life of victory

The habits of the victors are not innate. They are built, day after day, in daily choices, renunciations, commitments. By cultivating proactivity, vision, discipline, resilience, learning, time management, faith, integrity, gratitude and service, we will adopt lifestyles that lead not only to external success, but to a meaningful life.

Each of us can become a winner, not according to the criteria of the world, but according to the eternal principles of the Kingdom of God. For in Christ, "we are more than conquerors through him who has loved us" (Romans 8 :37).

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References

* Covey, Sr. (1989). The 7 habits of highly effective people. Frankincovie.

* Baumeister, R. F., and Tierney, J. (2011). Will : Rediscover the Greatest Human Strength. Penguin Press.

* The Holy Bible. (Louis Segond version).

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About the Creator

JEREMIE TCHINDEBE

Doctor of theology, I write on apologetics, Christian life, social justice, family, and biblical spirituality. I share reflections, teachings, poems, and analyses to inspire, edify, and transform hearts and minds on diverse topics.

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