The City of the Selfish: Breathing in a Graveyard of Emotions

In a world where blood ties burn the heart, let your silence become your strength and your pain a path to power.



Selfishness—an invisible poison that silently eats away the foundation of relationships. It doesn’t storm into your life with drama; instead, it creeps in slowly, wrapping itself around your bonds, love, and trust like a silent killer. It breaks hearts, creates emotional distance, and leaves a person feeling utterly alone among people who call themselves “family.” In such a society, one doesn't truly live—they die a little more every single day.

This is not fiction. This is not exaggerated emotion. It is the bitter reality of our times. In every home, in every street, in every heart, there is someone silently struggling with the pain inflicted not by strangers, but by their own loved ones. Each of us, at some point, has suffered at the hands of selfish relationships—those formed by blood but emptied of love. These ties, which should be sources of comfort, often turn into lifelong wounds carved deep into the soul.

They don’t always use harsh words; in fact, most of the time, it's not what they say—it’s what they don’t say. Their silence, ignorance, and passive cruelty scream louder than any insult ever could. The look in their eyes, the lack of concern in their voice, the way they walk away when you’re breaking—all of it cuts deeper than a blade.



When the Heart Screams but the Lips Stay Silent

There are moments when pain is so raw, so overwhelming, that you lose the ability to express it. Your voice gets caught in your throat, your heart suffocates, your eyes remain wet, and your lips frozen. These are the moments when your inner self cries out for help, but no one hears—because everyone is too wrapped in their own world to notice your silent agony.

This is how sensitive souls break—not in loud, dramatic outbursts, but quietly, secretly. Not all at once, but piece by piece, day by day. They keep smiling, keep showing up, keep serving others—while their hearts bleed in silence.



When Relationships Become Wounds

Relationships are meant to be divine blessings, reflections of God’s mercy. But when they are filled with ego, jealousy, coldness, and cruelty, they stop being gifts and start becoming painful tests. A sibling, parent, child, or spouse—when driven solely by self-interest—can cause more pain than any outsider ever could. These relationships may share your blood, but not your heart.

They leave behind wounds that cannot be seen or treated—wounds that only the one suffering can feel. And yet, the world moves on, blind to the slow death within you. You walk, you work, you smile, you survive—but deep inside, something precious is dying.



A Prayer from the Depths of the Soul

From the bottom of the heart, we beg Allah:
Ya Allah, protect us from such toxic, selfish relationships.
Spare us from those who burn our hearts with their behavior and never once offer comfort. From those who light fires within us and then walk away as if nothing happened. From those who remember us only when they need something, and forget us when we need love.

May Allah free us from relationships that pretend to be love but are actually emotional chains. From those who take our silence as weakness, our kindness as permission to hurt us more.



But Giving Up Is Not the Answer

Still, remember: life doesn’t revolve around people alone. People change. People leave. People betray. But your purpose is not tied to their actions. You were not created to be broken by the cruelty of others. You were created to rise, to reflect light, and to fulfill the potential that only you carry.

If people break you, turn to Allah. If your loved ones betray you, place your trust in the One who never will. Your silent tears, your shattered dreams—every one of them is seen and counted by the Almighty. Not a sigh escapes your lips that is not heard by Him.

He will reward your patience in ways you cannot imagine. He will replace what you lost with what you truly deserve.



Know Your Worth

When selfish people break you, they are unknowingly giving you the opportunity to discover your inner strength. You are not born to be dependent on others for your happiness. You are a creation of Allah—filled with dignity, power, and purpose.

Don’t let their behavior make you doubt yourself. You are not the problem. You are not “too sensitive.” You are human. You feel deeply, and that is a gift—not a weakness.

The selfish want to control your emotions, limit your dreams, and trap your potential—but you can rise above it all. Only believe in yourself. Step into your worth. You were never meant to live small just to make others comfortable.



The Light Is Within You

Light doesn’t come from outside. It shines from within. No matter how dark your surroundings, if your heart is glowing, you can find your way. You are not lost—you are being redirected. You are not forgotten—you are being protected.

The people who try to dim your light are only afraid of your strength. Don’t let them win. Your glow threatens their shadows. Your peace disturbs their chaos.

Keep going. Don’t stop. Don’t give up.



Your Silence Is Your Strength

The fact that you remain silent, that you carry pain with patience, is not your weakness—it is your power. In a world where everyone shouts, the ability to suffer quietly and still stand tall is a rare and noble strength. You are brave. You are resilient. You are seen by the One who matters the most.

And let no one convince you otherwise.



One Day, It Will All Make Sense

Time never stays the same. Just as dawn follows even the darkest night, peace will come after pain. One day, those who hurt you will be amazed by your strength. One day, you’ll walk out of this emotional prison and into a world where you are valued, honored, and free.

And on that day, you will proudly say:

“They tried to break me, but I rose. I didn’t shatter—I conquered.”

You will look back, not in bitterness, but with gratitude. Because what they did to hurt you became the very reason you discovered your resilience.



A Final Prayer

O Allah,
Protect us from cruel and selfish ties.
Keep us away from relationships that drain us, belittle us, and break us.
Grant us relationships that reflect Your mercy, love, and compassion.
Fill our hearts with patience, our minds with clarity, and our lives with peace.
Let us become sources of light for others—not sources of pain.
Let us be the reason someone believes in kindness again.
Ameen.