Self love

Goddess we are as women. Though having the power of self love is important. Which is key to the heart and to your spirit. You know it took me two and half years to truly love and get to know myself, and to be honest I'm still getting to know myself. It is okay to be lonely. Shit I am my own company and I know what I want for myself. I love myself enough to know what to tolerate and what not to. Truth be told you have to love yourself first

before you can truly love someone else. I truly had to learn that the hard way. Not giving myself time enough to actually grow as the person I am. Giving myself less attention than what I really deserved. Needing or wanting validation from others. When all I needed was to accept myself and love myself. No matter the flaws I had or whatever was going on with me. Literally forgetting what made me happy as a person. What did I really love? Besides eating donuts every other day…or sleeping my entire life away whenever I wasn’t busy. Looking in the mirror and belittling myself because I felt like I wasn’t enough.

Well, let me tell you… doing that to yourself isn’t gonna get you anywhere but sad and moppy. Self love is not only just love for yourself, but it is a true journey, healing process as well. Not only is it patience it’s also time. With time of course you have to be patient.

As I’ve said It has been about two years since I’ve started my self love journey. Here to tell you it’s not that easy but it’s all worth it. You all are beautiful we as women are beautiful. Tell yourself that and believe it. You are a Goddess I am a Goddess We all are Goddesses. We as women are powerful. We all have our own qualities. Sometimes people see in us what we don’t see in ourselves. Yet, once you look in the mirror, and see yourself and pay attention to yourself, and realize how great of a person you truly are you’ll truly appreciate yourself more.

It’s okay to feel lonely in this journey honestly it is very normal. When you go through this process not only do you appreciate yourself but you know what not to let get in the way. Remember, it is okay to put yourself first. Truth be told I’ve always cared about people before myself, or making other people happy instead of myself. As far as family members, boyfriends, friends,etc.

For a moment in time I had to isolate myself and think. Like well crap if the earth was to ever wipe out, and I was the last woman standing I seriously can’t depend on anyone or anything to make me happy or loved other than mysef.

As said love yourself inside and out not just outside. Ladies, there is more to you than just your looks. Now don’t get me wrong it’s great to love and be confident in the skin you live in. I spent most of my life trying to have a care what other people thought. Though, honestly nobody voice or thoughts are more powerful to who you are other than yourself. You are your own damn judge so don’t think so poorly about yourself you are greater than you was and will be greater than what you was.

Appreciate yourself, love yourself, be kind to yourself…BE YOURSELF

Never care about what people think and remember your voice is what matters.

You are you and I am me.