Put Down the Heavy Burden of Worrying

It's like I was kind. Most of the girls I dated had a few things in common. Historically, I have been attracted to deep intellectuals with dark hair - old souls who are just bitter in their eyes. Emotional pain is a symptom of bad behavior.

There’s nothing like looking into a woman’s eyes and exploring decades (if not hundreds of years) of surprises and concerns hidden under a stake, old stability. There’s an attraction for a little street wear.

But Jane was different. Jane was bright.

Is it better to fall in love with someone like you, or to attract the opposite? Jane and I were tempted to argue.

In conversation I have a tendency to go through a heavy philosophical banter. Where is America heading? If free will, why do people rely on consensus? What is the purpose of life?

But Jane just laughed and changed the subject. He was completely free, and he had one purpose to live each day to the fullest. Without trying, Jane drove me out of my comfort zone and into a more sunny place than I was used to.

My thoughts would not be a burden to Jane because she did not speak my common language of doubt and remorse. He shone in all the dark corners and my mind wandered.

Unbearable Weight of Being Human

Born on the snowy island of Minnesota, a place with practical values ​​and a sense of responsibility, I was prepared to view life as a burden.

Perhaps the famous winter, or the unspeakable case that has been going on since the Sioux massacre in 1860, or perhaps the endless fortunes of the Minnesota Vikings. Regardless of the origin of the struggle, the attitude is obvious - too much entertainment should not be trusted. We hold our anxiety close to our chest.

Jane made me rethink everything. To him, entertainment was the highest quality of life. Troubles brought him out like a breeze blowing the tulip. The simplicity of his contemporaries was absurd to my ego.

"Life is hard," said my self-esteem. “I have a lot to worry about. What if I run out of money? What if I lost my job? What if people think I'm stupid? My burden is heavy. I can't take life lightly because if I put my guard down everything will fall apart. I need my problems. Having baggage ensures that I am there. ”

Whenever my self-esteem began to show through the hardships of life, I felt Jane's humility with respect.

He said: “Stop being stunned. “You create problems to justify your problems. But weight itself is a problem. Release your weight. Life is a story we tell ourselves. So make the story beautiful. Nothing - and I'm not saying anything - is sensitive enough to sacrifice the pleasures of this present moment. ”

The responsibility is to choose. Indeed, problems come and go. But it is our reaction to these problems that defines us. We can take problems for granted or take them for granted. Difficulty will not make your problems easier; it will make them harder. Light liberates us.

Life is changing. When you are arrested, you are gone. You can be strong and sad during the process of life, or you can let go and enjoy the ride.

Stop Making Sense

“I dance for no reason. For some reason, you can't dance. ”~ Saul Williams

I think a lot. In fact, most people I know think too much. Human ingenuity, as wonderful and practical as it is, is evil. When we think too much about life, we create myths that cut to the true north of our supreme being.

You are not your own thoughts. You are the source of your thoughts.

Smoke and mirrors of psychological analysis make us miss out on the great communication of knowledge around us. We cannot see the forest because we are trapped in the bark of a single tree. Perhaps this is the result of a universal ego. Or maybe I just know a lot of nerds.

The truth of knowledge goes beyond the mind. What does this mean? It means that everyone has a strong vibration. The energy we exert is more profound than our actions and words.

Your very existence is a vibrant state that communicates with all those around you, openly and honestly, as effortless as the oxygen planted in a plant. Try as hard as you can, you can't hide it.

Is your strength heavy or light? The heavy vibration mode disappears. A slight vibration raises.

Difficulty denies sync. The light is attractive.

The difficulty is to glorify yourself because taking life too seriously makes ego feel important. But by putting your worries on the foundation, you separate yourself from others and separate yourself from the whole existence.

"Wise people are not happy," said ego. “When you evaluate your health, there are many more valid reasons to be concerned. Public infrastructure is deteriorating. The economic gap is always high. How can I stop all that and enjoy my life? ”

"Responsibility is a decision," said the senior. “Of course, there are problems. But taking matters into your own hands only makes matters worse. Is it realistic to stop worrying? Not always. But dancing is also absurd. When you dance, you choose to value the experience rather than the rational effects. We dance for no reason. But once we start, the rhythm clicks. It all makes sense. ”

Of course, not all situations in life should be taken lightly. In the face of disasters such as illness, injury, death, and addiction, a serious approach must be taken. Sometimes we need help from others, and it is important to accept if this is the case.

But in the course of daily life, life often comes to us easily when we are living a simple life.

If It Survives, Put It Down

When the student is ready, the teacher will come. Our teachers sometimes show up in unexpected ways. Jane was a teacher. He gave me a glimpse of what it means to love life without worry or judgment.