Attitude in the world, determine the direction of life

If you do not want to, how can others force you?

The result is not forced, but more of a rebellion, you do not let me do it, I prefer to do the opposite.

How to live your life, not in others, but in yourself.

There are upwardly mobile hearts, willing to work hard for it, naturally can slowly become better.

Sometimes, the attitude of the world often determines the direction of life.

1. In a desperate situation, turn a direction

There is more than one road in life, and it is too difficult to choose the right one at a time, you will always experience several attempts, some people try not long to be right, but there are trying for a long time to be right.

The willingness to try is good after all, the most fear is a road to black, knowing that it is a desperate situation, but still bent on the line, and finally hit the south wall, hurt themselves.

Sometimes, it seems to be the road to go turn in a direction to see the road, there is no need to hit a road with life.

Perhaps turning a direction, a different road to go, will take more time, but compared to walking a road without tomorrow, spend more time and what is it.

Is a loss is a win, not in the process of how, but in the end go.

As long as you know how to wake up in time, in front of a desperate situation to change the road to go, walk more slowly, can persist to the end, and also be a winner.

There is no shortage of half-way people in society, originally read a certain professional, but out of the corresponding work, but not to do their interests to find a job.

In the beginning, compared to people from professional backgrounds is a lot worse, but by interest and effort, do better and better, not professionals can become professional.

There is more than one road in life, one wrong choice does not mean forever, wrong then change the road, always find the road that suits you.

"Believe in yourself, the more frustrating the more courageous."

2. meet bad people, take the initiative to back off

People live a life, that has not encountered a few bad people.

Not doing anything, but there are always people who insist on coming up, doing disgusting things, forcing you to be angry, and targeting you in every way.

The angrier you are, the happier he is.

Shakespeare said, "A fool thinks he is wise, but a wise man knows himself."

Compared to fighting with the rotten people, knowing how not to fight with the rotten people high and low, to retreat is the real smart.

Instead of talking to him more, it is better to ignore him.

In his step, choose to take the initiative to back off, so that his anger has nowhere to vent, and finally can only be held in his heart, hurt themselves.

The backing off is not weakness, but resourcefulness, life is limited, to make room for meaningful things, and rotten people are angry, rather than quietly studying.

Spend more time on learning, to open the gap, invisible solutions to the "trouble", to achieve a better self.

3. encounter bad things, things over the page

Someone said: "people live a lifetime, worth loving a lot of things, do not be discouraged because of dissatisfaction."

Deeply agreed, a long life, entangled in bad things, is undoubtedly self-seeking, cocooned.

Instead of living in the past, it is better to get out of the past.

Once everything is like a fleeting cloud, too much entanglement is just asking for trouble, adding to their days.

Not things can not be, but you can not let go of yourself.

Many times, you can not let go of things, hated people, who have long forgotten you, only you are still in the past, others have long left, you can not let go of, hurt only themselves and those who love you.

Self-torture, it is better to take the initiative to put down, things over the page, and start over.

Those things that do not defeat you, will eventually become your help.

Try to get through, everything will slowly become better.

You live a better life, is the biggest counterattack on those rotten people, rotten things.

Turn the page, try to live each day in the future, be a better version of yourself, and go.