A Glimpse to a Brighter Version of LIFE

In a blink of an eye, the world and journey of life surprised us with so many events, roadblocks, and plot twists. It certainly changed the way we navigate life and drastically it shook us and show us different versions of life’s realities. With some unexpected happenings, surprises, news, and events, there are certain moments we feel tired, restless, and lost. We are faced with questions such as… Which path to take? Which life’s destination to go to or what choice do I make?

We are living in a world where being busy is somewhat sort of a badge we wear and carry wherever we go… or whenever someone asks us “what are you up to?", we usually answer with lines that include busy or working on life, school, work, business, career, and the likes. Sometimes we are so preoccupied with the current demands, needs, schedules, commitments, and things in our lives that we forgot to pause and break for a while to experience the very meaning and purpose of LIFE.

We are in a fast phase society where twenty-four hours seems to be not enough to finish the demands, tasks, and things we need to accomplish. Most of us are journeying to live in a speedy phase, aiming to reach for the finish line, racing towards achieving dreams, chasing, and getting what our hearts desire with speed, strength, and determination. Some wanted to be first or to be in the same phase and place as others. Competition here and there and challenges to beat everywhere. Our generation faced so much pressure, demands, and expectations. It seems like we are in an infinite cycle of meeting expectations, proving ourselves, and showing the world what we’ve got and how capable we are. We have this growing feeling of wanting, seeking, and proving things from various angles, purposes, and reasons.

However, as we take this path, we tend to forget and disregard looking after some important things in our lives such as taking care and looking after ourselves, resting, having enough sleep, or even being kind to ourselves. At times we are drowning in the crashing waves of expectations, pressures, and deadlines that it seems like there is no way out. In these situations, we resort and use sleeping as an escape not to feel the pain, sadness, loneliness, or emptiness within our hearts. Maybe for others, it is a place to break free from the cycle of everyday life and the routine of today… and have a place to rest and be at peace. For some, sleep is a blanket of ease, a safe and comfort zone for them to escape reality and feel relaxed. Even if these are some of life’s realities we see nowadays, one other significant reality is that sleep, rest, and taking care of ourselves is not just a luxury or a want but it is a NEED. We need it to rejuvenate, regenerate, recuperate and go into a healing state for our minds and bodies to be ready to face the next day full of surprises and challenges.

But little did we know that if we also take a step back and pause for a little, we will see a different perspective and glimpse of life which will lead us to a more peaceful, healthier, and wonderful journey. This can only be done if we open our eyes to the realities that there can be a change in the cycle that we are in. Change is an element always present in our lives and we just need to have that courage to start and grab that key to take the first step.

I, too share the same story, experience, and situation like all of you. But this year, I vow to step up and courageously walk towards the version of life that transcends into its ordinary common realm and see its very meaning through a glimpse of simplicity and contentment. This year, I aim to be different. This year I envision myself to be a person of contentment and commitment. Someone who is committed to not just changing for the better but seeing life from a brighter and simpler perspective. I wish to write this chapter of my life in a way where I inspire, motivate and I encourage others to see life in simpler but a more meaningful view.

Where I see life’s meaning not just only through meeting deadlines, setting up timelines, completing tasks but also tapping and congratulating myself on little victories I have such as surviving a tough and hard day.

Where I look at life not only with achievements, awards, or recognitions but also making a difference in the lives of others, creating an impact in the society, and making meaningful efforts to make a change may it be in big or small efforts.

Where I view life’s success in its more fulfilling version, seeing the smiles on the faces of the people I love, laughter and cries that I shared with people who mean so much to me, and being able to have the chance to love and be loved.

Where I find happiness not only from other people but from myself knowing that I have peace of mind and I am wonderful just the way I am.

Where I find peace not only in silent places but within my heart through following my passion, loving myself, and making sure that I care for myself in all aspects- mentally, physically, and emotionally.

Where every fall, scars, and pain from life’s battle are not just passage of life but a symbol of a new beginning and opportunity to begin again, stand up, and be a braver and tougher warrior ready to face life’s battlefield.

Where every moment of darkness and despair is also a moment of realization testing how strong and courageous we are to face life’s adversities.

Where kindness is not only for others but for oneself as well. Believing, cheering, and rooting for myself in any endeavors and goals I wish to pursue. Trusting that there are infinite possibilities and opportunities and my time will come to shine, grow, and flourish.

Where finding a “Eureka moment” realizing that there is so much more in life and that every little step, every progress, and every single try and effort counts. And in life, it is not speed that matters but rather it’s the progress and learning that counts.

Where I recognize that there are no deadlines in reaching for our dreams and that we all have our own phase and timing. Where all our dreams are valid and failures are not the end of the road but only a reroute to a much better destination.

Where I remove all fears and hesitations and take risks, love hard, believe more, take a leap of faith, and be fearless to pursue those things that lead me to my purpose, happiness, and goals in life.

Where I live each and every day of my life with Hope and Optimism that life’s journey may involve challenges from time to time but life is a marvelous journey… we all can enjoy, learn, experience, and live through.

Where I sleep tonight not afraid of what tomorrow will bring but waking up with positivity, hope, and faith that life will bring exciting and amazing lessons that will help me discover who I am as a person and guide me as I flourish to a better individual I will become.

Where I value more the people around me and the time, I have with them because tomorrow is never a promise.

And where I savor every memory bad or good, cherish every chapter, value every lesson, and grow every single day knowing that there is so much more in one’s life journey….

New Year. New Version of Me. New Meaning of Life.

How about you? Are you ready to take a step and explore this version of life?