5 Life learnings from TVF’s Aspirant Series

1. Don’t Compare yourself with others

In the first episode itself when Abhilash(MC) was confused about his Optional Subject, he compared himself a lot with what other aspirants are doing.

He was in a dilemma that the subject of his choice was not that good and scoring. He observed what others were saying to him and changed was too much confused about his decision.

He got different opinions from different people and was easily influenced by them. At last, when he talked to Sandeep Bhaiya, he was brought to light that his optional subject is his own decision and should not be influenced by others. He should take what he enjoys the most and thinks that it would be best for him.

At last, he chose his Optional Subject according to his choice and not others.

2. Don’t judge a book by its cover

Abhilash couldn’t accept the fact that the teachers teaching him in coaching were not IAS. He was so frustrated that he decided to leave the coaching.

If a teacher cannot crack IAS himself, he was thinking about how can he guide his students to become IAS. This notion of his could have been resulted very bad for him, as he was about to leave but was convinced by Dhairiya.

He learnt that the person who failed many times knows what not to do during preparation. Failure teaches more lessons than a win could teach.

3. Positive Approach in Life

He was brought to light that his thinking is very negative and he finds fault at everything irrespective of its good things. His thinking had a negative aura. He gradually develops a positive approach with time and learns that a positive approach is needed in life.

With a positive approach, we could easily fix things and try to see light, where darkness has its kingdom.

Without a positive approach, there would be no hope and that could eventually lead to extinction because survival requires a large portion of hope.

4. Failing an Exam doesn’t mean End of everything

Sounds strange? This is what every failed aspirant thinks when he/she fails in some exam of reputation. He/She thinks that this exam was everything to them and now they don’t know what to do with their life.

Cooldown! This phase is very bad, I know. But as I have expressed above that we should have a positive approach in life. Failure teaches us many things and eventually, the pain of failure goes away with time. This could take years even.

But at last, everyone finds happiness in his/her life. As you saw how Guri and SK were settled. You eventually find happiness.

5. Relationships are everything

Yes! You heard that right. We might think that achieving our goals and earning more money matters the most. But you are wrong, money and achieving goals are good and we should do but in the journey, we should not forget that Relationships we have with our parents, friends and loved ones is what matters the most.

Without our loved ones we are nothing with money and status.

Friends and family is the biggest asset in one’s life.

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