10 Reasons Why You’re a Loser

1. You don’t value time.

Losers don’t value their time at all. Any successful person will tell you that time is our most valuable resource. Successful people value time even more than money. What’s your job?

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But you make plans every year. Every year you promise yourself that “this year I will be plowing straight.” And everything is new. Your plans are not destined to come true. This is because you are not spending the right amount of time on tasks. Learn to manage your time, learn to say “no” — this will be a good step towards success in any area of ​​your life.

2. You don’t do things that fit your goals.

Outsiders confuse being busy with being productive. It is mistakenly believed that productivity is directly related to employment. Therefore, losers take on everything. They take part in anything. As a result, their efforts are scattered to nowhere. The only place they don’t direct their efforts is their goals and their values.

Write down your goals and strategy for achieving them. This will help you determine where you really need to direct your efforts. “The more surely you accomplish the deed, the more important you consider it.”

3. You do not take responsibility.

Yes, your boss is really an asshole and you really hate your job. But this is not a reason to do everything mediocre. You are paid to stay at work and to do your job well. You need to strive for perfection regardless of the circumstances. This is called maturity and wisdom. Losers are fine with poor grades. And they don’t think about getting better. One of the main rules of life: it returns the efforts that you make.

4. You limit yourself.

“I’m just bad with numbers”, “I really don’t know languages”, “My brain is not able to learn to program”, “I am not tough enough to run my business” — these are all phrases of losers.

They limit themselves. Forget that you have a limited set of skills and abilities. Stop thinking that everyone around you is smarter than you. This is the wrong way. Put in more effort, do your best. Then you will be successful.

5. You are a master of excuses.

Losers are always looking for logical reasons for their failure. They look for reasons why they shouldn’t have done something. And yet they find them. Losers go overboard with what is called “being realistic.” They constantly find excuses for their inaction.

Instead, they could just try to do it. As soon as your brain starts looking for an excuse, you need to stop it and activate the mechanism that triggers the desire to do something.

6. You do not know how to communicate and deal with people.

Losers have no social skills. “At least I’m being honest”, “I am who I am, accept it” — these are the phrases uttered by losers. Unsuccessful people behave arrogantly for no reason. Who likes showmanship? So don’t be one! It’s very easy to be nice and polite to someone you like. And you try to behave well with someone from whom you cannot get anything.

There is a great saying that the best way to test a person’s character is to look at his behavior in the queue and at the attitude towards the service personnel. Another good way to get to know a person is to watch their reaction when you screw up their thing.

7. You postpone everything for later.

The funny thing is that losers call themselves the buzzword “procrastinators.” And they are absolutely not ashamed of it. They don’t understand the value of time at all. They are quite happy to live in yesterday. Losers live as if they have another life in the store.

But in reality, no one has the opportunity to pause or rewind life a little. Realize that you are dying from the moment you were born. Every day is a gift. You can do whatever you want, but keep in mind that there may not be tomorrow.

8. You are not acting.

This is a too simple rule for losers. Losers prefer to think rather than act. They speak beautifully, dream, and plan beautifully. But unsuccessful people lack the impetus for action. Stop dreaming — start doing!

9. You don’t know how to deal with difficulties.

There is one legend. It says that once there was a shepherd who was small in stature and was not a warrior. He looked at the giant and said: “I will defeat you and cut off your head!” — and did it. The tests are as difficult as you imagine and as much as your weakness allows. Losers do not understand this and quickly give up. They give up the moment the situation becomes uncomfortable.

There are no roses without thorns, children without labor, and rainbows without thunderstorms. Trials not only bring us closer to our goal but also make us those who we never dreamed of becoming. Do not be afraid of fears, fight them. This will open up new spaces for you. Yes, yes, we are again talking about getting out of your comfort zone. To know your strength, you need to fight.

10. You are apathetic.

You have no opinion and you cannot make decisions. Not able to maintain smart conversations, cannot think openly if the topic is not in your area of ​​expertise. Losers think everyone should think the same way. Unsuccessful people don’t read, don’t study after school. They graduate from the university at most, because “it is necessary.” Even if they don’t get to the limit of their potential, they don’t care. They are able to get bored in the world of joy and miracles.

The quietest killer is apathy. Find yourself a hobby, do it. Even if you don’t get paid for it. For now. Use your talent and find a use for it.