Why Some men are irresistible

Ever met a guy and thought, damn! He’s so hot? Or just loose your senses for a bit and travel to the land of fantasies immediately until you’re brought back to life. If that’s you then you’re not alone cause that’s me too. Over time I have struggled with the fact that I like some people to a fault, it’s like nothing the do will ever make me stop, sure I hate their behaviors sometimes but it’s like I’m defenseless when I’m able to just be able to see them.

You see, some men have this aura about them that they just ooze everything you like physically and when you meet men like this, you’re fucked! Mainly because you have no control over this, I’ll love to call it “charm”. What’s even worse is that this charm is tailored exactly to your specifications without your approval, and it just takes one look at them to bring you to your knees.

So I’m not even talking about just physical looks here, because a man might be really good looking and not turn you on in that way. I’m talking about his charisma, his smile, his nose or something as insignificant as the way he talks to you, you can just feel every tiny bit of detail he has drawing you to him without your consent.

This man might have a nasty attitude that you just hate or even is a bad person that you’re scared of but his charm sweeps you off everytime and renders you defenseless with just one glance. If this has happened to you then trust me, you are not alone. All around the world, women have this thing in them that draws them to certain men, like a vortex, it draws them in sucks them up without their control, i think that is the reason why some people remain in toxic or abusive relationships (I’m not sayin that’s the only reason), fall in love with criminals, the list is endless, and when you ask them why they give you the cliche sentence “there is just something about him”. Yes, clearly something you can’t control or do anything about except the fact that you hope and pray that the man who has a charm tailored to your specification is a “good human” else, like I said earlier, you’re really fucked!!.

I can boldly say this because it has happened to me not once not twice and I have heard from my friends personal experiences, I have read stories of people's real life stories and I have gone through lots of comments women share about there experiences from around the world and it’s funny how women accept this fact define it with statements like “oh, he really gets me”, “we have an understanding”, “he’s my soulmate”, and the most used one “we’re made for each other”, well, I don’t think you are I just think it’s the universe snitching on you and bringing someone you who is totally irresistible to your doorstep and at that point nothing they ever do would matter because you will always forgive, making excuses with the sample statements listed above in your head while in real life, these are things you wouldn’t tolerate when done to you by another man. I’m not saying you wouldn’t get mad at them, in fact you will, not only that, you’ll convince yourself to move on and find someone better, you will even go ahead with the plan and would eventually meet someone better but they won’t feel right, you will soon start finding flaws in them, you will also know that you are deliberately coming up with reasons to leave them and like an addict, when the person who has your Charm shows up, you’ll run back to them in a heart beat.