The Feminizing Nature Of The Woman

Women express femininities through their presence- they show emotion and thus, express it and draw out in similar ways emotion from the masculine body in their presence. Longing and fantasy are the nature of the feminine, and thus, fantasy and longing and become infectious to masculine bodies. Thus masculine bodies must be careful not to be drawn in too closely to these femininities, for they can led to a diversion from the priorities of their role: to protect, to build, and to know.

It is of the nature of femininity to draw in and seduce through the alluring and sensual art of temptation. A popular allegory for this is Eve in the Book of Genesis. Thus, it is well understood that a man in control of his sexual discipline is the most powerful man of all and is less likely to be controlled by the feminizing nature of the woman. When a man addresses his sexual desires and has learned to overcome them and not suppress them, he does both a favor for his future woman and himself. Through the maintenance of a healthy sexual energy, he does not fall prey to impulse or lack of the imagination. He has made himself available to the immutable laws of autonomy and expansion.

In a similar sense, the woman must protect her sexual femininity for her chosen one.

In protecting her femininity, she makes herself worthy of protecting. This is why you often see that well-known and promiscuous women have difficulty finding and keeping partners, while more conservative backgrounds are usually "taken". When a woman does not protect her femininity, she has signaled that she does not want to be protected. Sexual chastity is core to a woman's value, and it must be nurtured through the proper associations until it is ready to be given away to the most valued and worthy protector.

The woman's precarious predicament

In a sense, the woman who longs for her protector is doing what is natural; she is awaiting the return of the one who provides her protection. It is in her best interest to yearn for the one who provides her shelter and safety. She is governed by this desire and shows it through vulnerability and attraction to the opposite sex. Thus, the woman is naturally drawn to that which (or who) is best suited to protect her.

However, the precarious nature of feminine energies creates tension if the masculine body is not suited to sustain its balancing qualities in the broad and expressive presence of the feminine. In a similar sense, masculine bodies need feminine energies. Masculinities, or the characteristics of more grounded and dominant features, create boundaries for the creative and colorful flow of feminine qualities to grow and find stability, such that, if tended to in the proper order, allow the feminine body to bring the masculine body to a state of peace, or the state of mind that is without instability and is closely associated with equanimity and balance. Masculine bodies require a search for meaning amidst the changing world; they are tasked with the burden of being themselves and fighting for their place in a world where conflict is the natural order of things.

Thus, the woman's feminizing qualities can be of great distraction if not given the proper boundaries. Man must secure himself first through the art of controlling his feelings. It is essential to a man's well-being and rationale to not judge the world by how it makes him feel; he becomes controlled by others rather than learning to control himself. As a result, he can easily become enmeshed in the femininities of his woman, leading to instability and conflict. As such, a man does himself no good by becoming angry because his woman is angry; his role is to stabilize and bring order and thus, by bringing order, he sets the stage for the feminine body in his presence to be his peace.

Masculine bodies who are not in control of themselves may find themselves being prone to a certain set of behaviors, all of which cause them suffering:

• Reacting more than responding to issues
• Making remarks more than resolving conflict through conversation
• Being prone to overthinking, indecisiveness, and worry
• Finding themselves believing that situations happen to them, rather than seeing themselves as an active participant in their life

As a result, if he is in a spiritual contract with a woman (a romantic relationship of any kind is a spiritual contract even if it is through casual sex), he may find himself becoming more agitated by her feminine energies. This is the point at which it is best to separate himself and to find peace through association with other masculine bodies or through the reorganizing of his thoughts. He does not do himself well when he instead chooses to address feminine energies through the lens of an unstable masculine character; he risks alienating himself and thus, nothing is solved— he falls prey to his own undoing.