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By D JiseroPublished 12 months ago 3 min read



I wasn't to call your attention to this dear fams and I hope you will make use of it has we journey into this new year together keep up with it and see how your life will be transformed

Let's dive I to it

1. Not everything will go as you expect in your life. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow.

2.Reduce bitterness from your life, that shit delays blessings!

3. Dating a supportive woman is everything.

4. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule - Never lie to yourself.

5. If your parents always count on you, don't play the same game with those who count on their parents.

6. Chase goals, not people.

7. Your 20's are your selfish years, build yourself, choose yourself first at all cost.

8. Detachment is power. Release anything that doesn't bring you peace.

9. Only speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence.

10. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Normalize dressing well, you're broke not mad.

11. Some people want to see everything go wrong for you because nothing is going right for them.

12. Being a good person doesn't get you loved. It gets you used.

13. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you.

14. Keep your move private. Don't announce it until it's SEALED! Premature announcements attract bad spirits. Best thing you can do is stop telling people what's going on in your life.

15. For the sake of your mental health don't love too hard, therapy sessions are expensive. Also, marry when you're ready, not when you're lonely.

16. Your thoughts are very powerful, make them positive.

17. Social media will make you envy someone you should actually pity.

18. Nobody owes you anything on your birthday, learn to save money and spoil yourself.

19. That move you're scared to make might just be the one that changes everything. Do it. Move.

20. Dont mess up your progress trying to rush the process.

21. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water.

22. Add value to your life, learn a skill, develop yourself.

23. Never love someone to the point where you no longer mind them hurting you.

24. You are your own best friend. Never ever, put yourself down.

25. Sometimes people come back in your life just to check if you're still stupid.

26. The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become.

27. If you want to run, first you must learn to walk. Yes, the dreams are big, but you have to start somewhere, and doing something is better than nothing at all. Start small, stay consistent and watch it get bigger.

28. Before spending money on someone else, make sure your family is good.

29. What comes easy, won't last. What lasts, won't come easy.

30. Normalize lying to people who ask you lots of questions about your personal life.

31. One day you'll test HIV positive because of forgiving cheating partners.

32. Some Ex's need to understand that even if we hear they now drive a plane or own the world, we will never regret leaving them.

33. Avoid peer pressure.

34. Do not abuse and kill women. Respect yourself.

35. Not everyone at your work place is your friend.
~ Do your job.
~ Get paid.
~ Go home.





PRIDE IN BEING A GOOD MAN: 💪🦾

When you meet a good man, he takes pride in his role as a partner and as a role model for others. He knows he’s unique and valuable, so when you find Mr. Good Man, treat him accordingly. Remember, you must also be fruitful to capture and keep a good man.

SELF-LOVE: ❣️❤️💞

Finally, self-love is crucial. If you don’t love yourself, no man—no matter how great—can ever love you fully. Without self-love, everything else becomes pointless.

This is the essence of a good man. Recognize these traits, and when you find them, appreciate and nurture the relationship you have with such a man coming your way most of the time. Pray for wisdom to recognize good man. 😍🥰

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